Top BDSM/ Kink Series - Irl kink educator approved

I adore this series. There's so many different types of kink represented here and I just really love their dynamic as a couple and as play partners.

My favorite part about this series is when Juuni sets a limit after a scene that he doesn't want to have his hands bound and be gagged at the same time anymore. Siwon respects that for the rest of the series. He only does it again when Juuni explicitly says that Siwon can do whatever he wants in a specific scene. It's subtle but speaks volumes

This series is here because of the side couple Chanwoo and MD. I adore them with my whole heart.

The thing that I super love about Chanwoo & MD is that they demonstrate the use of safewords and how doms need safewords too. They also show how you can have kink without sex and sex without kink. Not all BDSM scenes or relationships have to have sex involved and they have some good snippets of non-sexual scenes/ moments

I love the main couple too, of course, but Chanwoo & MD are everything

I love this one SO much. I wish there were 3 seasons and a movie.

This is a great example of a dominant bottom/ submissive top (idk why so many people in the BL community think that only bottoms can be subs and only tops can be doms but...that's super not true irl). Love the wax play, the consent checks and I also love the very accurate portrayal of the sub making noise and IMMEDIATELY knowing he's in trouble. It's so real, it's hilarious.

I love everything about this one,

I really really like this one. I love how it talks about the ways kink/bdsm are a form of communication between two partners and the genuine vulnerability it requires. I also love that it shows the dom actually learning/ practicing/ READING about kink so he can understand the layers to it.

My only two notes are 1. If someone is tied with rope and there's a safety emergency, CUT THE ROPE OFF ASAP. Untying can take too long. and 2. The way he chokes him is incorrect, plz do research I beg.

This one is dom/subverse and the reason I really love it is that it shows how dynamics can be fluid and switched around between partners.

For these characters in particular, their sexual positions stay the same but their kink dynamics shift. While that's very unique within BL stories, it's very common within the real life community for partners to switch or have fluid power dynamics depending on the scene or type of play. I just like that these characters get to play outside the box.

This one is so fun. Even if it's not 100% historically accurate, I know for a fact a decent amount of the sex toys were real or were based off of real things. And even when they aren't, I can suspend my disbelief bc of how creative the writers are. This series is fun, sexy, and I really like their overall dynamic. Also the plot is good too so far.

This one isn't for everyone but I do think it's a wonderful example of CNC (consensual non-consent). This type of play can be really intense and I appreciate that they hold space for what the sub wanted to get out of the scene with full support from his partner. I also really love the showing of negotiation/ discussion and aftercare, too.

This is a follow up to the oneshot above and I really love it for a few reasons. 1. Super fun example of committing to a roleplay scene, 2. The sub shows appreciation and reassurance for the top after he did something emotionally draining like a CNC scene, and 3. The bit at the end that shows how prepping for a kink scene isn't sexy or glamorous, sometimes it's getting out of breath while inflating a mat with a hand pump bc you love your partner. Anyway, this couple is cute af, imo

This series is poetry. There are a lot of layers and I don't have enough space to type all my feelings about Aporia here but I really love how emotional this series is. The kink is great but it also touches on things like agreeing to certain things outside of your boundaries bc you think its what your partner wants, trauma from bdsm "gone wrong", what trust means in bdsm, and learning to understand your own limits as they grow and change.

Highly recommend this one, for sure

This is another dom/subverse! I really love this one cuz it's a dom/subverse that has multiple scenes of actual kink play taking place instead of just vanilla sex with commands. A lot of dom/subverse covers the sub struggling to accept their desires but I think this one does it particularly well because it focuses on struggling to trust a partner with your vulnerabilities or asking for what you want instead of just shame for being submissive.