- top is a dom and a sadist, the bottom is a masochist sub
- top is more experienced than bottom and guides him through the conditions, dynamics and rules of safe BDSM
- he starts having feelings for the bottom
- both sub/dom relationship+ play and a romantic, committed relationship
- open communication
- bondage, toys, humiliation, pet play, spanking/whipping, obedience training, findom
dom sadly kinda coerces sub into financial domination (findom) and has unresolved issues
- top sniffs out the masochist inside the bottom
- bottom is into pain and domination
- top has a strong, non chalant dom streak, but also likes to please his bottom
- top can be a sadist, but he's more of a coddler and spoils (sees his sub as a pet)
- sub training, blindfold, forniphilia (ash tray holder), sex toys, hitting (once, in the face), breath control, humiliation, rough sex, public sex (in front of someone; top does this to assert his dominance, heh)
- top is a sadist dom who initially just wants d/s play (no dating)
- bottom isn't maso nor a sub (goes with the flow of play more than actively enjoying obedience and serving), but has feelings for the top so he endures the play
- top is very experienced; he sets up a contract, a safe word, clear boundaries and guides the inexperienced bottom through BDSM
- bondage, spanking, teasing, rough sex, neglect play, blindfold, breath control, sounding, nip clamps, gag, shibari, cum restrict
- top is submissive (servant, dog)
- bottom is a dom and a sadist (master)
- both explore their S/M and Sub/Dom preferences and roles together as they're both newbies, the bottom is clearly a sadist dom
- lack of communication, boundary setting; no safe word, no frame of play or talk about expectations
- body writing, bondage, leash, spanking, punishment (stapler), humiliation, public/risky play, hot wax, pet play, sensory deprivation, leather gloves,
- top is a particularly sadistic, obsessive dom; the bottom is very masochistic and a sub
- sub/dom play + master-servant dynamic evolves into a committed relationship w. almost 24/7 d/s dynamics
- sub is very devoted, dom is very possessive
- lack of good communication and strict boundaries
- neglect play, pet play, wax, nip clamps, bondage, harness, humiliation, whipping, flogging, piercing, sounding, obedience training, etc.
- the bottom is into pain, that's it
- top is a masochist and sub, bottom finds out he likes to be a dom and a sadist
- top is looking for his queen; he's manipulative and pushy, wants to be in charge of how the relationship unfolds and knows how to push it
- bottom has a dom streak, but imo, doesn't unfold his true sadistic side
- no establishment of boundaries, safe words, no framework of play
- bondage, fetish wear, harness, leash, doctor roleplay, sounding, queen dom
Breath control without prior consent
A Basic Guidebook to BDSM