I think it’s because he’s still adjusting. It’s not like he was gay to begin with so of course everything will be new to him. Sometimes inner thoughts hinder you and all. Plus liking someone with the same sex can be really hard especially if you’ve been “straight” almost all your life. I mean let’s be real if let’s say u were straight and a man u cant possibly have sex right off the bat with a man right? It takes time to adjust
If I were the seme i won't be like him... If I confess him in my right mind,, i will just take responsibility.. And its not the matter of adjusting,, if you love someone automatically you want to hold him or wants to be hold...
It depends on the person of course. Being someone in his let’s say 30’s, 30 years of being “straight” there will always be a voice inside you saying ur wrong or whatever. Before i accepted myself as a bisexual i have always thought that liking the same gender is wrong. Once i accepted it and dated a girl deep down i still thought that it was wrong or it was telling me that it was a sin (cause i grew up in a catholic household) it too me a while to adjust and of course i broke with my ex because i needed to take my time and adjust. Also love doesnt equal holding, if you love someone you have to learn to be patient
Ok then it's your point of view... I can neither change yours or mine.. What I feel will also won't change about seme... B.Up happens in every relationship.. That's not a problem ...the problem is how your attitude towards your partner... If you are in a relationship whether its hetero or homo,, if you are in relationship if you make you partner unhappy, uncomfortable than it's your problem and it's not a problem about sexuality.. The seme came in relationship knowing every single thing,, in relationship there will be intimacy and you are denying then you are not true to yourself while confessing to them... About age he is 30 that means he can make decision rationally,,, 30 years and can't make decisions that means the seme is the worst...
Im talking about adjusting and acceptance but since it seems you do not understand my point. Well it is alright i just tried to explain his side
Okay.. It was good that they are together now... But I would never wait for a man who is away from me for 1year that too for marriage interview.. And what is that he cannot hold hands,, can't kiss,, cant have sex.. Man you said you love him, you intrude yourself in his life.. And you can't even hold hands... This sucks... Literally I don't like the seme..