True!! Just because yul suffered emotional abuse doesn't mean he has the right to pass it unto someone. He should've just had a therapist, but i dont think his parents would allow it? Since theyre the cause i dont think theyll also be the cure. Because some families would actually doubt ur feelings and rewrite it as their own understanding (coming from an asian household myself). Sian is like a 'call for help' but in a bad way. Sian deserves much more, although yul on the other hand doesnt deserve sian

This story hit way too close to home, (while my ex didn't crossdress and try to worm back into my life that way and I, unfortunately, didn't have a yuji to save me) I experienced similar emotional abuse and manipulation and even a similar stalker situation, and people feeling bad for yui actually disgusts me. Yes, he had a difficult and sad childhood, but so did she, and this story goes to show that one must choose how to react and live according to the past. One can let it define you and consume you or you can choose to try to learn from it and choose a different path as sian did. He chose to act this way and treat her in this way so he should have no right to be in her life in any way. The ending was great in the way that it showed redemption for him, which is fantastic, but I don't believe anyone should have been rooting for him to stay in her life.