I want a manga that talks about an abused relationship without romanticising it. Like it h...

This one's pretty long, but I thought it showed a pretty realistic situation.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/zankoku_na_kami_ga_shihai_suru/

I 2nd "I=stupid"s recommendation. I think it's the only manga that portrays abuse so realistically without a hint of romance.

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/saezuru_tori_wa_habatakanai/
it doesn't really goes with your request (but here abuse is not romanticized, not to spoil for you (if you haven't read it already) but he was raped and it traumatized him, he's super m and abuse sees as sexual satisfaction not love)

Thank you. I will check it out

I have read it and impatiently been waiting for the updates.

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sabita_yoru_demo_koi_wa_sasayaku/
maybe this?

you're welcome! (●'◡'●)ﾉ

Lets Dai....like this manga has romance and stuff like that but (spoiler alert) the girl that is his girlfriend at the moment was rape and a lot of drama when around her.