Dinah

There are many beautiful Shounen Ai. Of course, in most of them aren't sex scenes, but it's all about the development of the two main characters. Maybe you just had bad luck with yours.
Here are a few of my favourite Shounen Ai:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tsumasaki_ni_kourozu/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/endou_kun_no_kansetsu_nikki/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hyakunen_kesshou_mokuroku/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ikumen_after/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hakumokuren_ga_saita_nara/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/19_days/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kirakira/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/canis/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yamete_kudasai_mabushii_desu/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mayoke_no_darling/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hidamari_ga_kikoeru/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bokurani_matsuwaru_etc/

Yes, SA is actually great to read, its cute and the stories are nice and mangas with male sex are called as Yaoi. In SA sex is either implied or not shown at all. Not every SA is about incest.
You can follow my list:
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/65469/

Ohh okay ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ tq

Um...shonen ai isn't all about incest. XDD And it can be very nice and satisfying to read, even without the sex. Though if you read BL mainly for the sex, then yeah, shonen ai is really not your cup of tea. Seven Days is a really cute shonen ai, they only kiss right at the very end, but it's worth it. A feel-good manga, it puts a smile on your face.

Ok tq ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

Ohh yeah maybe Shounen ai is just not my cup of tea ... Bcoz I'm kinda perverted on seeing yaoi manga having S** ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ hehehehehe , bcoz I think they really expressed themselves in the manga .... Maybe Shounen ai just have too much of feeling to look in to ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Another reason is I'm too stupid to realize SA story (￣∇￣")

Yes., it's quite enjoyable for me if I'm in a mood of reading one.. The slow pace and light story are so calming..

OOT: Am I the only one abbreviating shounen ai as SnA?

I think u are one of it ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ well I prefer yaoi more (coz is sexy ) ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

Actually most of the shounen ai manga doesn't have sex scenes because shounen ai only focuses on the cute side of the relationship.
So if you want to read a heavy explicit scene I recommend you to read yaoi..

Boy's love has a wide spectrum of genre. it just so happens that what you've read is incest. do check out the tags before reading, i recommend. shounen-ai is really tame and story-centric most of the time. and yes, if you wanted boy's love with sex, it should be at the yaoi section you should be looking over.

the only difference between shounen-ai and yaoi is the censor rating.

Nah, I'm actually good with any BL genre., maybe except tragedy and heavy plot.. Actually I like bara and smut alot.. XD

hurrah for smut!!!!

if i want to read a manga in school or class or in any public places i prefer reading shonen ai cause it is sweet and doesn't have any awkward stuffs if strangers saw it i'm good in any yaoi or shounen ai as long they don't put tragedy, drama, psychological, history together. had a bad experience with it they made me cry sooo much i can't go to school the next day cause my eyes are swelling and i got asthma attack from crying alot so i'm avoiding it (≧∀≦)

Long live smut! (^o^)/ (^o^)/ (^o^)/

I looooove smut, but i love well developed characters and plot even more

I think we need a genre in the middle!!! ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ A BL manga that isn't forced to have smut scenes every 1-2 chapters like yaoi, or deprived of sex by heavy censorship like shounen ai.

There's nothing i find sexier or more enjoyable, then when characters that i feel strongly about start to do smex ლ(´ڡ`ლ) .
It's one of the best feels, going hand in hand with extreme fangirling (≧∀≦)

Smut is better as well (づ￣ ³￣)づ