Idk

Thanks for speaking my mind! that's exactly why i said i want her to finish her revenge and reunite with her family in my comment, unhealthy relationships aren't my thing, his love doesn't justify his actions!

And what about, " he couldn't show favoritism because he didn't have the power to protect her" well she still died and he couldn't do anything about it either way! at least she could've died knowing that he loved her! how am i supposed to support this relationship? no way in hell!

That makes complete sense, his love cant get rid of her trauma completley. What has happened cant be changed but she can find a new space for herself amongst people that love and support her.

And absolutley he could have told her that he loves her, if not that then that he doesnt hate her but he has to remain impartial.

And if he really couldnt say that then he should have just been cold but cordial. There are so many arranged marriages where the couples arent on the best of terms but remain relatively civil. It isnt like there are only two extremes of either be super obvious about your love or completley ruin their self esteem and make them think you hate them.

And tbh if I really loved someone I couldnt imagine saying such things. Id rather let them escape the marriage or smth than make them stay with me while insulting them at ever turn.

Indeed, being cold to someone and being mean isn't the same, but they both show your indifference, so why choose the extreme path if u truly have feeling for someone ? just after they went through something as hard as childbirth at that, if you can't support them when they need it most then at least don't add more to their pain!