It's amazing how someone could date a pornstar and have a stable relation. Me, I wouldn't ...

I think it would be ok. People who date actors(or other people in the entertainment industry) have to do the same thing just not to the same extent. As long as the person is using protection and getting tested regularly I don't think it should be a problem :3

Yeah I too think so. Since I believe in true love and all, I can never love anyone other than my lover. I believe love is unpredictable So if I fall in love with a porn star... Even though how much open minded I may be but I don't think I can tolerate my lover if he is holding...or having intimate with some one other than me.

Omg! Finally someone who agrees with me. This is one of my favorite mangas ever, but it made me angry when he was still having sex with other people when he and his partner loved each other so much. No matter how open-minded and accepting you are, I don't think there's any way someone who truly and deeply loved their partner would be okay deep down with him/her sleeping with someone else besides themself

But sex is not love. You can believe in true love all you want, Kira and Kazu did too. But if he continues his job or not is non of Kazus business and they only loved each other purely.
So I don't think it would be hard to date an AV actor as the difference between work and sex with a lover was described as completely different and of course some get jealous thinking their lover is having sex for work with someone else but 1. Who are you to tell them to stop their dream work and 2. They love you truly, so what more is there to discuss?

Hmm...you have interesting points, but everyone has different opinions on what they think the boundaries of a relationship is. While it generates interesting discussion, it most likely that you and I will never be able to convince one another what we believe those boundaries to be. I believe in what I said before and you believe in your own statement. I, personally, believe that sex and love SHOULD be interconnected even though they don't HAVE to be

I think I get what you mean and I can understand that you want your lover to yourself. So maybe you're right and we might never be able to convince the other otherwise. It really interests me though why you think it has to be interconnected. Is it because you'd be jealous or because you grew up believing it should be?. (If this sounded rude I really didn't mean to, sorry. )
I think polygamous relationships aren't for just anybody but personally I wouldn't call this polygamous because there is only one relationship - between Kazu and Kira. :)
But yea maybe I'm just a lil strange ^o^

To be honest, I'm not really sure how to answer your question. I didn't percieve it as rude or anything, I just don't have a definite reason. It simply has to do with my own meaning of morality and love and whatnot. I'm not going to preach at you in a "holier that thou" type of way (I hate people like that). I believe that love is a pure emotion that is expressed in multiple ways including the desire to hold your partner, even though sex is often times used for personal pleasure. P.s. I'm really enjoying talking to you (￣∇￣")

That's good then I always fear I sound rude. ^^
But I think that a lot of people don't think about the concept of a relationship and act willfully and get jealous and throw tantrums because that's what they think it's supposed to be like, because we see that in movies, and read about it.
But I absolutely respect your opinion. I was just really interested because as I said, most people don't think about why they act like that or more like if they really think of something like that. But I didn't mean that it's wrong in any way. It's good to have your own morals and believes and to act on them, is what I believe.
And I totally agree with you, it can be expressed in so many different ways. I really admired the relationship the two of them had for the sake of how much they trusted each other and that they were able to communicate so well. Then again I think you have to be like that, otherwise a relationship with an av actor could indeed become suffocating to the other party.
Personally, if I had to be in a relationship, I'd probably choose something like they have. Because they really were beautiful together. And mainly because they would be able to have a loving relationship without sex. And while I wouldn't mind it much if the other party was an av actor, I would be just as happy if I had Them "to myself". So the more I think about it the more I think I understand your point. ^^
Anyways sorry this got long. I hope I didn't make too many mistakes. (￣∇￣")
Ps me too ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

(▰˘◡˘▰) I'm happy that you were able to understand what I was saying even a little. I'm really not good at expressing my opinions and beliefs (especially online). Like you, I believe these two have a beautiful relationship. I didn't find it strange because I wanted the uke to throw a possessive tantrum. I found it strange that the seme even had an interest in holding someone who wasn't his love. It just struck me as odd. Oh, and it wasn't too long at all. I rarely find reasonable people to chat with online. People always get offended easily and start throwing hate storms. Thank you for being civilized ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Oh I actually wouldn't like it so much if the uke had thrown a tantrum. ^.^
Well I don't get why you'd want to be a porn actor either or anything like that but I'm not prejudice. As long as no one is forced and they enjoy themselves all's good in my opinion :D
Aah me too! And I never find anyone I can debate with over stuff like this or else.^^
Plus it should be basic manners to act civilized. I don't get all those people starting to hate on others. Maybe it's their hobby though? (≧∀≦)

It's probably they're hobby. People nowadays have this whole self-entitledment thing going on. I'm usually like "dude, I'm polite like a normal person, but I don't owe you anything." Well, trolls will be trolls

Absolutely agree!

i think i'd die from jealousy and any other dark feelings whenever i remember my partner's working in the sex industry. i mean heck, i think anybody would want their partners to be theirs and theirs alone. this is indeed a tough situation for people with partners in the sex industry.