She only corrected her dad a few times and the spirit wolfy like once or twice. Every time she was "undercover" she just let it go and would silently cry about being a girl. This latest undercover she corrected white haired guy like once and then has been crying about them seeing her as a crossdressing boy since then.
I mean, it’s annoying that they would insist that she’s a boy even if shes said “I’m a girl” even just once. That should’ve been enough. Just the same, it’s like with trans people. They shouldn’t have to “pass” as a woman to be referred to as such. It’s just plain annoying that they’re doing this to her.
Yes it's annoying and it shouldn't be happening but it's gonna keep happening esp when she gives up after only a few attempts. She doesn't even correct her dad anymore when he calls her his son. And some people don't change, ok. But she doesn't correct any of the new people she meets either and then goes "but I"m a girlllllll." Like. They don't know that, and if you only tell them once/never and don't correct them when they address you as a male or when they ask why you're crossdressing, then of course they're gonna keep doing it.

She keeps going on about how she wants to be seen as a girl but barely ever corrects anyone when they address her as a guy. It's not difficult to be like "I like wearing men's clothing cause it's comfy but I'm a girl" and/or "I'm flat chested but I am def a girl."