ok i'm tired of all this hate for jeanette

i came back to read this after several months cause the updates are slow, and honestly? at first i used to dislike jeanette too, like gee girl, why the fuck are you so naive and innocent? those type of mcs/ characters just ruin my mood.
however, now that i'm starting to read again i can see why her character is like that. she's pitiable, innocent and has been sheltered all her life. people saying she had "a great life, she's so spoiled, selfish, etc", does being spoiled, living a grand life, immediately make someone happy? she never had an actual family, and has been used since she was fucking born bruh. she was made to think her family is claude and athy, and that's all she wants, familial love. and people really saying she should be more "mature" "the white haired dude who grew up along w her is more mature and whatnot", they didnt even grow up in the same circumstances?? she's just a fucking child (13/14?).
everyone talking like they could make their own decisions by then and were already mAtUrE, imagine growing up in this shithole of an aristrocratic world with nobility all around who would gossip about you for the littlest of things.
she never experienced hardship, just how do you expect her to suddenly be "mAtUrE and not naive". she and athy, or even the white haired boy all grew up in different circumstances which lead her to be pitiful. athy lived two lives, and this dude has seen what his father has done and what the ouutisde world is truely like, which jeannette never got to experience.
anyways i didn't read the novel so idk what she does (but it seems like the author changed the story direction?) but goddamn, this hate for jeanette is so fucking unnecessary it's pssing me off. have a great day.