LITERALLYYY its pretty understandable if u were in her shoes... i rly want her to get a character development
yeah i totally understand her pov because when my sister came out as bi my family had a really hard time because my dad is a pastor and we’re really religious. I supprted her privately but i couldn’t bring myself to defend her in front of my parents, and to this day i still feel so guilty for not being able to be there for her
If she assumed it would bring her mother pain then why did she directly tell the mom lmao. You would think she would try to keep it a secret longer. It was just by luck that Jun’s mom happens to be a good person enough to accept it
she did try to keep it a secret for a pretty long time tho? literally jun told her when he was in highschool and it was rn that she told her mom. not saying that its ok for her but dont try if u dont know what ur talking ab...
“ not saying that its ok for her but dont try if u dont know what ur talking ab...” what the hell are you on about? Am i not allowed to point out a characters bad actions? We’re supposed to applaud her for “keeping it for a long time”?
That’s different though because it’s not like you outed your sibling. And have remorse/guilt.
Bro she doesn't even know what it means to "out" someone. Just think about it, if you and me hadn't educated ourselves about the LGBTQ community, would all of us really know that it is bad to out someone? Especially if you aren't LGBTQ yourself?
I feel like there's a lack of understanding and ignorance that makes her act this way.
no? did i ever say we should applaud her for her bad actions? have u never gotten mad at someone or what. idc tho just go reply to every hana comment since u have no life
Oh. That’s a good point I didn’t think about. Thanks for pointing that out. I still don’t like her (especially because telling a secret about your sibling is still pretty low even if she doesn’t understand outing), but I’m sure she’ll get character development.
you implied it. do you have a brain in there or is it hollow? i dont care about the comments you didnt have to be rude and say i don’t know what i’m talking about
Most of the comments say how she's petty because she's low on love and homophobic. I feel like there's more to her than what you see at first glance.
As she's already said, she didn't have a problem with any other person being gay , but her brother being gay would cause her mother pain. She's already seen her mother suffer so much that she doesn't want her brother to ruin her further. She just loves her mother too much and is afraid of the implications of her brother's homosexuality on their family. She feels like if she scolds him or hates him enough, he'll eventually give in and somehow "stop being gay"
Is her attitude towards her brother wrong?
Yes.
But is it understandable? Also yes.