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Just saying about the first story

Vampire Queen March 12, 2016 1:51 pm

Ok I read this about three years ago but I think some of you are missing out a crucial fact. In the first story the uke does sleep with his boyfriend's ex but that is because he is being manipulated and blackmailed by him. The uke sleeps with the ex because he believes he has no choice that is rape in a way, it does not make him a slut just an idiot and a naive kid who thinks that he has no other alternative, who tried to protect his boyfriend. He is still stupid for not telling his boyfriend about the ex (in my opinion).

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    Anonymous April 25, 2016 4:37 pm

    pardon my insolence but i will have to disagree with Your Highness, Vampire Queen..
    "Rape is a word for sexual assault" In this case, it was consensual and not rape when he gave the permission to have sex with the ex. You see, if he was so against it, he would have struggled more.. besides it's wrong to say that he doesn't have a choice.. everyone has a choice.. it was a given that people can't be robbed of this.. if you're in his case would you really do something like that?? of course not.. the ex already stated he wanted to break them up. do you really think he will really do something despicable as spreading a rumor and destroying the name of the bf?? if you just stop for a second and think,, anyone would arrive at this conclusion... and giveing an excuse that he's idiot and naive??? o, please!!! a guy having a sex with another guy.. do you think he's naive that he couldn't make right from wrong?? by the way, he came from being done with someone else and with the stimulation of some toy.. you might have missed that fact..

    if i was in that situation and it was rape as you said,, i don't think i'll be hard.. you know?? i think even if the ex used some toy, i would be so repulsed and disgusted that my little brother wont be even half erect.. unless he uses some aphrodisiac.. i don't think a rapist could make me come.. i'm not that depraved, you know..

    so yeah i think the brat's a slut.. he enjoyed the sex after all...

    whoa April 25, 2016 4:55 pm
    pardon my insolence but i will have to disagree with Your Highness, Vampire Queen.."Rape is a word for sexual assault" In this case, it was consensual and not rape when he gave the permission to have sex with t... @Anonymous

    An erection is a physiological response that can have nothing to do with desire or repulsion. Men and women both can experience physical arousal and orgasm during rape. It doesn't mean they enjoyed it. It doesn't mean they wanted it. And it CERTAINLY doesn't mean it wasn't rape. Stop perpetuating a dangerously damaging myth.

    Vampire Queen April 25, 2016 8:02 pm
    An erection is a physiological response that can have nothing to do with desire or repulsion. Men and women both can experience physical arousal and orgasm during rape. It doesn't mean they enjoyed it. It doesn... @whoa

    Well said!
    Please Anonymous read up on rape, victims of rape and then tell me if what I said, in context of this manga, is right or wrong.

    Bloodyhell October 24, 2016 12:00 pm
    pardon my insolence but i will have to disagree with Your Highness, Vampire Queen.."Rape is a word for sexual assault" In this case, it was consensual and not rape when he gave the permission to have sex with t... @Anonymous

    Too much to read my hear spinning
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    Bloodyhell October 24, 2016 12:00 pm
    pardon my insolence but i will have to disagree with Your Highness, Vampire Queen.."Rape is a word for sexual assault" In this case, it was consensual and not rape when he gave the permission to have sex with t... @Anonymous

    Too much to read my head spinning
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    Bloodyhell October 24, 2016 12:01 pm
    pardon my insolence but i will have to disagree with Your Highness, Vampire Queen.."Rape is a word for sexual assault" In this case, it was consensual and not rape when he gave the permission to have sex with t... @Anonymous

    sorry#-.-)

    djserani September 9, 2017 3:41 am
    Well said! Please Anonymous read up on rape, victims of rape and then tell me if what I said, in context of this manga, is right or wrong. Vampire Queen

    Thank you. Rape victims come from all situations, often times when they've been forced into arousal. The body reacts to stimuli, period. Ugh. People like this piss me off.

    It irritates me, too, that there's NO understanding for this guy's age. He's what, 15? 16 a most? He's not thinking like adults would. He's threatened by his Bf's ex. He's worried about protecting his bf. And if the guy is vindictive enough, he sure as hell WILL ruin the bf's reputation. It's not out of the realm of possibility. In the end, it's blackmail which is still not consensual. So... yeah. *sigh*

    Vampire Queen September 11, 2017 6:31 am
    Thank you. Rape victims come from all situations, often times when they've been forced into arousal. The body reacts to stimuli, period. Ugh. People like this piss me off.It irritates me, too, that there's NO u... djserani

    Good point to bring up about his age, hence the naivety when it comes to love relationships and sex.

    Mameiha December 21, 2017 2:24 am
    pardon my insolence but i will have to disagree with Your Highness, Vampire Queen.."Rape is a word for sexual assault" In this case, it was consensual and not rape when he gave the permission to have sex with t... @Anonymous

    Wrong. There is a clause in sexual assault law that criminalizes the use of coercion as a means to get tacit consent from the victim. The means of coercion included are: violence, blackmail, use of intoxicating substances or drugs, confinement or restraints and threats of death or bodily harm to the victim or victim's family. In other words, if you blackmail someone into sleeping with you, even if they agree to do it, it's still a criminal act of sexual assault. If you slip someone drugs and they agree to sleep with you, you're guilty of sexual assault. If you threaten to kill someone's mother if they don't sleep with you and they agree, you're guilty of sexual assault. Maybe it's different outside the US, but here you can't have eye contact with a stranger without the fear of having sexual assault charges filed against you.

    Mikan-San April 9, 2020 8:38 am
    Wrong. There is a clause in sexual assault law that criminalizes the use of coercion as a means to get tacit consent from the victim. The means of coercion included are: violence, blackmail, use of intoxicating... Mameiha

    Lmao you guys are missing the point and I agree with that one person lmao the uke clearly said he went and do it out of his own will..bruuh he even fucken said he is sure there’s some other way to solve but he still fuck the ex anyway..so shut up about rape lmao

    Vampire Queen April 9, 2020 9:15 am
    Lmao you guys are missing the point and I agree with that one person lmao the uke clearly said he went and do it out of his own will..bruuh he even fucken said he is sure there’s some other way to solve but h... Mikan-San

    Can you link the page and show us exactly where the uke is doing it out of his own will and not blackmailed in any way? Because I have read this manga quite a few times and never came across it.
    Yet I can link proof of rape and blackmail:

    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/damasaretemo_suki_na_hito/an/damasaretemo-suki-na-hito-chapter-3.html/9/
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/damasaretemo_suki_na_hito/an/damasaretemo-suki-na-hito-chapter-3.html/10/
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/damasaretemo_suki_na_hito/an/damasaretemo-suki-na-hito-chapter-3.html/11/

    (These pages are proof of blackmail and praying on the uke's naivety and weaknesses)


    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/damasaretemo_suki_na_hito/an/damasaretemo-suki-na-hito-chapter-3.html/13/
    (the uke clearly feels disgusted by the sexual advances of the other guy and wants it only to be once)
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/damasaretemo_suki_na_hito/an/damasaretemo-suki-na-hito-chapter-3.html/14/ (He says no and that he does not want to have sex with the guy and the act is non-consented clearly rape)

    If you are talking about this page here:

    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/damasaretemo_suki_na_hito/an/damasaretemo-suki-na-hito-chapter-3.html/20/

    This is clearly a case of victims mentality after the horrific act, if you ever read on rape victims and their mental state afterwards you would see that in a lot of cases the victims defend their assailant/s by saying things like " if only I was dressed properly... or not there at that time..."
    And really he was traumatized and to have his lover show up immediately afterwards was adding to his distress as at that time he clearly wanted to go home and be comforted by him and besides he already paid the blackmail and thought the rapist would uphold his end of the deal.

    Mikan-San April 9, 2020 9:24 am
    Can you link the page and show us exactly where the uke is doing it out of his own will and not blackmailed in any way? Because I have read this manga quite a few times and never came across it. Yet I can link ... Vampire Queen

    Really? Yes..that last source is the one I’m talking about..stop bitching about how much you know about mentality..he’s protecting the person that you called raper..bitch please..if he’s traumatize and has mentality he wouldn’t do that..also it doesn’t matter..what matter is that he didn’t share this pain and solve it with his lover..the only thing I can see when he’s lover show up is guilty and not only that a bitchy behavior protecting the rapist but not his love..so shut up about rape and traumatize..the uke is clearly not traumatize nor rape but the only thing he got was threatened..everything else he did and dig his own grave.....he should at least talk with he’s lover before fuck the ex..if anything I feel fucken bad and sorry for the seme..he’s got played by kids..and the ex is a coward that is a sex friend..and now this little bitch uke?? Please!! Lol ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Vampire Queen April 9, 2020 9:49 am
    Really? Yes..that last source is the one I’m talking about..stop bitching about how much you know about mentality..he’s protecting the person that you called raper..bitch please..if he’s traumatize and ha... Mikan-San

    You insulting me and name-calling just prooves the type of person you are if you have to resort to such methods to prove your point instead of stating and citing facts. If you are too immature in your thinking capacity to realise what I and others here have referenced than too bad, once you have grown in your mentality then come back here and realise what I have stated. I'm not going to argue further because you clearly think you are right so no truth I state and nothing I will say further would change your mind, so let us end things here. Goodbye and have a nice life.

    Mikan-San April 9, 2020 10:57 am
    You insulting me and name-calling just prooves the type of person you are if you have to resort to such methods to prove your point instead of stating and citing facts. If you are too immature in your thinking ... Vampire Queen

    Lol why do I have to play nice? and state fact? This is not a law suit or anything...the funny thing is that you’re mixing reality and fantasy and at the same time playing rules and laws and finding evidence and fact..if u can read I said the last source you cited is what I’m talking about...if you don’t know what is right and wrong..then don’t throw your emotion into judging the situation..and it’s good to debate..I’m not arguing with you..and if you can actually tell so much about a person by the way they talk impressive..but then again I didn’t call you name or anything..that’s just how I want to talk...and it’s funny how you wants to change my mind so u gather facts and cited evidence..this is not about that it’s just about COMMON SENSE...lol but I do get it it’s your OPINION at the end..same for me..babye girl!