Soo a serious question

hey i haven't come out to my parents yet because they're extremely homophobic but if you're planning on coming out to your parents i wish you the best of luck and i pray everything goes well for you <3

I really didn't need to come out like if that makes sense(and English is not my first language so please forgive me if it's confusing) I've been dating my best friend for about 3 years all my friends are very supportive and about my parents I talk about her in front of them call her my girlfriend occasionally to see their reaction but neither my mom or dad didn't seem to mind so now I'm very comfortable in front of them holding or kissing her but I've never come out officially??? idk if that makes sense lol

hi so this is not about me but my friend and because its anonymous i believe it to be fine if i share a little of their story
so my friend always believed they were really straight until they met a person of the same genre one day, they hit it off really well from the start, that person is around 4/5 years older than my friend and at first they mistake feelings of love for admiration/respect/ etc you name it, but when came the moment to go different ways, my friend realized their true feelings and felt really lost
we were younger at the time (around 16 i think) and both really uneducated on the subject and about love in general so when my friend called me to talk about our feelings i was totally at a loss for words and was of no help at all
she asked me if she should talk about it with their mom as they have quite the close relationship but they were scared of being judged and of their mother being disappointed with her child having such thought towards the same gender.
but at the time, our train of thoughts ended up being that the mother, having worked as a model in the fashion industry and being well acquainted/friends with publicly homosexual people, that would mean that she was open minded and understanding of the topic.... bad way of thinking as behavior in the professional environment might not reflect one's personality, but my friend really wanted to talk about it with their mother so they went for it
they explained that they met this person of the same gender during the filming of a series (my friend wants to work in cinema), that the person was amazing, that they had a really good time with that person and that in the end they might have developed romantic feelings for that person. they were really nervous but hopeful they would get support
the mother somehow quickly brushed it off and asked about that one person of the opposite gender that seemed interested in my friend a couple weeks prior to that discussion (my friend talked about the person to their mom asking for advice on how to turn down someone if they weren't interested, obviously saying they were not interested) and the mom who used to say that they should absolutely not force themselves if they weren't attracted to someone, tried to bring up that same person my friend wasn't interested in and told them to go on a date with them or something because they were the opposite gender
idk if what im writing is really understandable but my mind is getting confused haha
anyways my friend was really sad that their mom brushed off the subject the way she did. they told me it felt like she was saying "omg omg no no no you are not starting to feel attracted to the same gender, go on a date with the opposite gender it'll make you realize you are actually attracted to them"
so yes, not really accepting.. my friend right now is really supported by their friends but not so much by their family
they are still confused as to how to define themselves and i think that deep down they would really want to just be 100% straight, for their mom, for their family, because its less "problems", its more "acceptable" etc
it makes me kinda sad ╥﹏╥