Lets look at it like this: there are many ppl who like reading these yandere like manga too. Even i do, for example Candy Man (mild) and Color Baby (intense). I find them so interesting. But would i like to have a lover that will lock me up in my room, attach my foot to a chain, force me to have seggs with them, harm me in any way and not let me speak to my friends??? Absolutely not! I would rather die than to through all that torture. However, if, while u read any shotacon, you get horny and masturbate...thats kinda extreme. But there are absolutely cases in which what someone reads, does not even reflect what they would ever do and want in real life. Everything is fine as long as one never becomes a pedophile or looks at a kid in any different sexual way.

This pedo issue really interesting
Let me give you guys situation :
I like read this kind of manga or you can say with genre shotacon but i absolutely don't like kid in real life i'm even dont like play with them, so am i a pedo or not?
Let me see your reaction ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭