ok, i totally understand disliking any guy (that i would be recently dating/hooking up with/a flirtatious colleague) showing up at my job (when I haven't told him about it, nor invited him) and talking to my boss/colleague about me.. and that's without having any traumas.. I have actually often been faced with this kind of situations (always from males) and it feels so very suffocating...
ok, i totally understand disliking any guy (that i would be recently dating/hooking up with/a flirtatious colleague) showing up at my job (when I haven't told him about it, nor invited him) and talking to my boss/colleague about me.. and that's without having any traumas.. I have actually often been faced with this kind of situations (always from males) and it feels so very suffocating...