Yaoi is MLM sex without a plot if it has a story line and plot it’s not yaoi for example given & banana fish are not yaoi it’s BL
no fucking shit, the comments are all saying they wanted to see an explicit scene aka "yaoi" ,,, your name doesn't help you in this
I don’t wanna join the argument or anything but are you saying its ok to fetishize other people if you’re the same sexuality as them? Idk it just sounded off to me when I first read that
1. My name has nothing to do with this it’s an inside joke for me and my friends
2. Some people don’t know that so that’s why I was informing people
3. It is never ok to fetishize even if you are MLM
4. I don’t know your gender but if your not about of the MLM or the LGBTQ+ you have no say
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no sorry i worded it a bit weird
shut up idc if its an inside joke your friends are weird, and who are you informing? you replied to me.
also i worded it wrong and i didnt say mlm can fetishize
you guys constantly talk over mlm AND MLM ONLY, just go on with your day knowing you fetishize
I’m not fetishizing anything I am a MLM and as a MLM I feel like y’all BL fan are abusing the word fetishizing or tryna be super save a hoe when it’s not your place
another thing my friend being weird has nothing to do with you and I never meant to reply to you I was trying to make my own comment it was an honest mistake and then you got aggressive
no, you being a mlm doesnt mean you can fetishize it, the word is being used correctly but so many people are exactly doing what the word says thats why it seems overused. You should know that?
i can’t believe you got downvoted for this, guess the women on this site don’t enjoy being called out on their bs lmaooo
I never knew this, can you explain it more? I just read depending on the cover art and don't care about tags much, so I just learned what MLM (i first saw multi level marketing wgen I googled it but I know the real meaning now) is cause I read this thread. I am interested to know the differences in all terms used. I thought yaoi was BL in general. I havent read Given and Banana Fish. I read Sign, so is it considered yaoi or BL?
sign is considered a yaoi as it has explicit scenes which is mlm
HELP its so embarrassing for them.. they cant take criticism
So if it has sex it's yaoi, if no sex it's BL? You also mentioned that if it has no plot it's yaoi. Sign has a plot tho, does it not? I don't get it.
Why you care what they do?
Its their own life u dont bind what they do. Let them be ur only starting an issue here...
All human are weird from the start it didnt change anything pff..
I literally said even if you’re MLM you can’t fetishize it that like saying I’m a homosexual but I’m also very homophobic it just doesn’t make sense
And it has been over used by kids on tiktok who don’t even know the meaning and I’m not just talking about in the sense of yaoi/BL
it’s used for a whole lot someone can literally say oh I like Asians and then people be like you fetishizing Asians
Liking asians is one thing and fetishizing and stereotyping asians into submisive, obidient and innocent is another thing not to be mistakes for being the same thing but those kids on TikTok don’t seem to think that they see one video and roll with it
No in BL they can have sex it just not explicit and sometimes there won’t be a sex scene they just hint to it in short BL is basically Shounen Ai
Aite so basically
Yaoi= Stories with explicit scenes (a.k.a sex scenes)
Shounen ai= Stories that focuses on the romance/storyline and has little to no explicit scenes
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Its not ok to fetishize anyone even if you’re the same sexuality as them
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Users can read whatever they want and have whatever type they want regardless of gender or sexuality. But its also pretty annoying when they don’t care about the original plot anymore and just whine and whine about the fact that theres no ‘yaoi’ if they have time to complain then they also have time to go and find an actual BL manga to read instead of complaining about getting baited. BL readers also shouldn’t go and hate female characters just because they’re female and they should also stop going to straight mangas or mangas that doesn’t even have romance in it and just start babbling about how it should be BL just because 2 male characters had a random interaction. Its disrespectful and annoying.
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K thats all
I feel you
you guys are weird only reading this for the yaoi tag, stop fetishizing unless youre mlm