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A Discussion About Love

BloodLust (BL) April 7, 2016 5:40 am

What does it mean to "like like" someone?
How are relationships any different from friendships (other than one of them being sexual and the other platonic)

Hi I'm a confused little potato who fell in love with a senpai and I'm struggling to figure out if it's actually a crush or maybe I'm just so introverted and unacquainted with people that I think it's a crush :I

From what I've learned in yaoi manga,
Symptoms of being in love:
- wet dreams lol
- getting turned on by them
- over selfconsciousness around them
- constantly thinking about them
- thinking theyre really hot/cute

Welp the first two definitely don't apply to me since I'm too innocent for that sht
I think that numbers 3 and 4 could arguably also apply to the friendship category. Like... I haven't had many friends before so it makes sense that I'd be overly self-conscious around them and such. And ofc I'd get hopeful that they ask to hang out or something since it's not something I do very often.
As for #5, I don't know if he's that physically attractive (:P) but a lot of times in my mind I catch myself thinking "OHMYGOD HES SO CUTE" so it's more of a personality thing? idk what I'm talking about anymore.

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i got off track and now im lost



Okay so thinking logically and considering what it takes to really be 'in love', I guess I see him as just a friend... But my mind and emotions are always saying otherwise.

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ive confused myself even more lol
what

Responses
    narutolvr April 8, 2016 3:54 am
    A piece of additional information that may be helpful:HES LEAVING FOR UNI IN TWO MONTHS IM CRYING T_Twelpim probably just gonna wait it out n not tell himmaybe ask him for contact info so we can communicate lat... BloodLust (BL)

    Ahaha you're older than I expected! But that makes it even easier for your friends to arrange things for you. Since he's graduating soon, there'll be tons of parties they can help you get invited to and all that. The fact that he's going off to uni soon makes this easier and harder. If you're looking for a relationship, this just became exponentially harder. And, even if it did work out, would come with a whole slew of problems that you probably don't want to jump into so quickly. The best course of action for this would probably be to spend some time as friends, and then mention you want to keep in contact while he's in uni.

    But, if you're looking for more of a fun experience/hookup...then you're in a damn good position lol. If you mention that you kinda like him and just want to spend a few weeks exploring that, then you're pretty much guaranteed to succeed, since he's in the frame of mind to make memories and leave no regrets behind and all that. But this would definitely be more temporary, so I'd recommend it if your crush isn't too deep.

    BloodLust (BL) April 8, 2016 6:21 am
    Ahaha you're older than I expected! But that makes it even easier for your friends to arrange things for you. Since he's graduating soon, there'll be tons of parties they can help you get invited to and all tha... narutolvr

    i just wanna spend more time with him :I
    <probably not gonna go for the kissing n stuff cuz im still too innocent for that ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ >
    i dont know if i should tell him at all since we wont really be able to have an extended relationship ;-;