http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hit_drunk_love/
idk if this one but uh best of luck reading and finding the perfect manga u want.
sorry i dont have a list so here it goes
Eigyou Nika!
Old-Fashioned Cupcake
Glasses Cloth and Playlist
Sensei, Mou Dame Desu
Neko x Neko (switch couple)
Omega-Sama Night Club
Like a Tidal Wave
Dear Benjamin
Unromantic
Unmei no Tsugai ga Omae da Nante
All About Lust
King's Maker
The Good Teacher
Love For Sale
On or Off
My Partner's Taste and Fetishes
Mo Dao Zu Shi
Here is one about a cop and a Yakuza, but in a
really light tone: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/honto_yajuu/
And Love shuttle is a omegaverse but not typical at all, both the seme and the uke are strongwilled http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/love_shuttle/

i need bl's where the uke isnt a complete pile of weak-willed dumb garbage cuz im losing patience. i dont have preferred genres im just tired of stupid ukes who always humiliate themselves for no good reason. like holy fuck a lot of these ukes piss me off cuz theyre embarrassing themselves so much it gets physically painful. anyways thanks for listening to my ted talk pls give recs <3