I dont feel like it's right to put all the blame on any of those two. They obviously find it hard to understand the other person since they have completely different backgrounds. I feel like it's actually conveyed pretty well, I like that. They have different priorities and different outlook on life and obv money. For Seungeon he prioritises love and he doesnt get how bringing up the topic of money is shameful for Jiwook. He never felt that shame, he never put any thought into the topic of money at all so naturally he doesnt get why it's such a touchy subject. Especially because for him it's easy to say "just dont care about it, ill pay for you" - its even his way of showing affection. He offers the money because he likes Jiwook and wants to take the burden of poverty off. He sees the problem of Jiwook's poverty as minor /because/ he can always just give him money. Its such an easy fix in his mind. But of course he acted selfishly, immature, dishonest and obv undermined Jiwook's efforts. I see Jiwook's reasoning as well. I just wish he could not put such an emphasis on the problem of money and especially the shame connected with it. Even going as far as being so embarassed by his father, its so sad. Also because silly boy, Seungeon doesnt care about that, hes not judging you for that.
I dont feel like it's right to put all the blame on any of those two. They obviously find it hard to understand the other person since they have completely different backgrounds. I feel like it's actually conveyed pretty well, I like that. They have different priorities and different outlook on life and obv money. For Seungeon he prioritises love and he doesnt get how bringing up the topic of money is shameful for Jiwook. He never felt that shame, he never put any thought into the topic of money at all so naturally he doesnt get why it's such a touchy subject. Especially because for him it's easy to say "just dont care about it, ill pay for you" - its even his way of showing affection. He offers the money because he likes Jiwook and wants to take the burden of poverty off. He sees the problem of Jiwook's poverty as minor /because/ he can always just give him money. Its such an easy fix in his mind. But of course he acted selfishly, immature, dishonest and obv undermined Jiwook's efforts. I see Jiwook's reasoning as well. I just wish he could not put such an emphasis on the problem of money and especially the shame connected with it. Even going as far as being so embarassed by his father, its so sad. Also because silly boy, Seungeon doesnt care about that, hes not judging you for that.