Pretty please help

Is it this one? http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/arashi_no_ato/

OMG thank you! I have been looking for this for awhile now. I will mentally send you hugs. (づ￣ ³￣)づ

the color of the hair threw me off because sasaki (the seme) is the one that has lighter hair and wears glasses while the uke has dark hair, and is older too.
nonetheless, i recommend arashi no ato, it is one of my all time favourites. it also tackles about sexuality and love that has no boundaries (๑•ㅂ•)و
oh yeah, the seme is a furniture importer... you must have confused him with maki the architect from punch up.

I think I got that part confused with another manga, but I remember a scene where the seme and uke eat at various posh restaurants and bars together whilst the seme tries to persuade the uke into a relationship with him.

actually in ANO they did go from bar to bar the first time they met and seme is aware that uke is his type from the beginning but he furiously clamp it down because he never goes for straight guys and the uke is a straight guy that loves his women. uke did try to keep his connection to seme even when seme tries to stay away from him even when he does not understood (that he is actually started to feel attracted to seme).
uke - black haired straight guy. seme - openly gay guy, brown hair, glasses.

Thank you for clearing things up for me. It has been years since I read this manga so my memory of it is not that good. But I loved the scenes when they go to different bars, especially the special one when the uke finally gives in.

ikr? haha. since this is a personal favourite i recall it pretty much but the others? it gets jumbled after a thousandth read or so.

lol. So true I only recall my favs the rest only the parts with the most impact I end up remembering. Thank you once again for all your imput, I know it was not much to go on (my little description). (づ￣ ³￣)づ