and I'm not saying you're not allowed to be uncomfortable. it just sucks that yaoi is the forefront of this site and that means that a lot of none mlm people seem to complain about how the gay couple interact and look. I just noticed that when it's a straight couple and the girl looks young, no one really minds it. same with wlw couples. if one girl looks mature and the other looks young, it's hot and shes a milf.
I look really young and I like guys who look older than me so it's just uncomfortable knowing that it makes other people uncomfortable when though people are rightfully dating in their age group

idk about any one else but I dont mind the bottom looking young. if anything, it really shouldnt matter. it's not unrealistic because there are some people who are genetically small in real life and are adults. I knew a girl was was 4'11 and an adult and everyone always got mad at her for dating guys who looked "way too old for her"simply because she was super short.
not only that, I dont think any girls in this comment get to have a preference for what a mlm couple looks like. just dont say preference because that sounds weird. just say that you are more comfortable with a couple that looks like they're the same age or both look mature. as a gay guy, I wouldn't go into a wlw and say "I prefer my lesbian couples to be the stereotypical masc and fem"