Y’all are so immature if you think Ham is being selfish. the guy just got out of a long toxic relationship and he clearly isn’t only thinking of himself, but yechan too. you have to see everything from his point of view; yechan is very young compared to him, and ham probably isn’t ready to devote himself to him, not only that but the man has psychological problems he needs to deal with.
add ending a relationship, being injured, crushing on someone younger than him, possibly being rejected by his father AGAIN. he can’t force himself to love/like yechan when he’s going through so many things all at once. it’s probably super emotionally draining.
Y’all are so immature if you think Ham is being selfish. the guy just got out of a long toxic relationship and he clearly isn’t only thinking of himself, but yechan too. you have to see everything from his point of view; yechan is very young compared to him, and ham probably isn’t ready to devote himself to him, not only that but the man has psychological problems he needs to deal with.
add ending a relationship, being injured, crushing on someone younger than him, possibly being rejected by his father AGAIN. he can’t force himself to love/like yechan when he’s going through so many things all at once. it’s probably super emotionally draining.