Totally agree
Also that "dating someone and wanting to love them only for you to realize they're going to dump you" also applied to FL
FL believe in the novel that leo will immediately fall in love with yulliana
And spoiler (don't scroll down if you don't want spoiler)
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Apparently zion read the novel too even before he met FL
HAHH?? OMGG
yeah i meant to say that the FL was a player and just like zion but i forgot her name LOL sorry for the confusion!
I think maturity does become a factor when they refuse to change their idea even after proven wrong by multiple people. For example some of them don’t seem to understand that having to witness a divorce as a child is traumatizing. It forces you to wake up and realize all those fantasy you had were fake. Your parents won’t get back together even tho they married said their vows and had you. Some readers just don’t understand this huge factor and it just pains me Bc I’ve been through this same divorce shit and it just seems like they are playing it off as something that’s not important or something that doesn’t need hold impact when it does very much. To a child their family is their whole world, their warmth, and their safety box and to have that stripped away one day you obviously lose a piece of you’re original self. (this is my thoughts)
ah i see! i get what you mean, i've never dealt with parents splitting since yk just a mom. but i have seen some of my friends go through mental breakdowns due to divorce and it's very much obvious how it affects someone! I wish you the best and the greatest happiness. but what i greatly dislike with this FL now is the spoilers that (spoiler)
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the FL would play with the original ML's feelings and get "mad/sad" when he is heartbroken and relies on the ORIGINAL FL for comfort. also it was stated that the FL and the ML zion will kiss in front of the original ML knowing that he is in love with our FL. Which automatically made me think "such horrible people..." so i understand it now but my view changed a lot after the spoilers. i don't really like our FL anymore
It's fine and dandy that they admit they are assholes and cowards who have painful past.
It's not fine to start a game of romance where you just stop when you start to develop feelings or when the feelings fade away. You don't want to get hurt, then don't hurt people in return. Is that too much to ask for?
You don't believe in love? Then why are you dating people who truly into you and hurt them? How about not dating anyone and heal yourself first? It's not like they will die if they don't date or something smh
i understand the people disgusted with the fl and zion. i also understand the people who are defending the fl and zion.
i have friends that dated people like zion/the female lead and it is HORRIBLE, dating someone and wanting to love them only for you to realize they're going to dump you just cause. and being in the situation where my friend went after my other friend's ex. someone who made her breakdown and sob her eyes out, she STILL dated him. i dropped that friend obviously.
but take it from zion and the fl's situation.
they're NOT bad or evil people, you also have to understand that zion doesn't even know if leo and him are friends, leo made no effort to stop the breakup and they've been broken up for 3 years.
i do sorta get the frustration of seeing zion go after the girl who practically broke his friend tho. it's pretty fucked up to go after the one person who made your friend break down and cry.
BUT you also have to take the fl into consideration, the trauma of seeing her parents divorce and losing belief in the existence of love has obviously affected her. she admits she feels bad for her ex's and is a coward.
but she isn't evil or cruel, she breaks up with them when she loses feelings since it would hurt both her AND her s/o if she stayed with them.
it's not about whether the people in these comments are "mature" it's about how the FL has been a shitty person thus far and how she dealt with her situations resulted in the pain in ANOTHER person.
but also remember that leo didn't fight for her, nor did he accurately explain his feelings well. that's his loss. and the fl shouldn't have been so mean either. but no one is right or wrong.
just read the story and enjoy it or drop it and forget about it.