I am 20 and still live with my mom. Yes sad I know but the thing is she has made it impossible for me to survive without her. She holds onto all of my personal id (ssn card, passport, etc.)and has a bank account open for "me" that I don't have access to. So I can't get a job or it is at least pretty hard to without my id and if I did get a job I can't open another bank account without my id which would then mean I'd have to put it in the one only she has access to. So I can't move out, I can't even get a drivers license (you need id to get a drivers license) I can't get a job and I have no independence. I also can't go outside or do anything without asking her first so I have lived a horrible life inside, and I'm saying this as an introvert, so its bad. (I'm probably an introvert because of her but still) My friends are planning on driving to UCSC, where a friend of ours goes, and stay for a week but of course I have to ask for permission. Well long story short she said no and her reasoning is that I don't have a job, don't have good enough grades, and don't have a drivers license. I used to understand the grade thing but I am simply not an exceptional student, due to my "crappy" grades (asian family soo idek(they were pretty crap in high school)) I only attended one school dance at my high school (freshman year homecoming) and had never attended a single football game, my "curfew" was sometimes 3 or 4 (school ends at 3ish and she used to call the home phone to make sure I was home(i lived close by but I sometimes had to jump the fence to be able to make it in time for the Fing phone call)) and I could never hangout with friends. I am in college now but due to the pandemic I am at home all day, and somehow I miss school bc at least I could go outside and see my friends. I had somehow convinced myself that my mother would let me go on this trip bc I've been stuck at home all day, the vaccine, and bc UCSC has bi-weekly covid tests for all their students meaning my friend definitely doesnt have covid and all my other friends are vaccinated and I'm responsible enough to wear a mask. But obviously I was wrong and now I'm super upset and want to get out of this relationship but cannot bc she has made it impossible for me to survive without her.
Ok I am here to rant or ask for opinions but here is a cute manga so I hopefully don't get restricted https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/barairo_my_honey/
I am 20 and still live with my mom. Yes sad I know but the thing is she has made it impossible for me to survive without her. She holds onto all of my personal id (ssn card, passport, etc.)and has a bank account open for "me" that I don't have access to. So I can't get a job or it is at least pretty hard to without my id and if I did get a job I can't open another bank account without my id which would then mean I'd have to put it in the one only she has access to. So I can't move out, I can't even get a drivers license (you need id to get a drivers license) I can't get a job and I have no independence. I also can't go outside or do anything without asking her first so I have lived a horrible life inside, and I'm saying this as an introvert, so its bad. (I'm probably an introvert because of her but still) My friends are planning on driving to UCSC, where a friend of ours goes, and stay for a week but of course I have to ask for permission. Well long story short she said no and her reasoning is that I don't have a job, don't have good enough grades, and don't have a drivers license. I used to understand the grade thing but I am simply not an exceptional student, due to my "crappy" grades (asian family soo idek(they were pretty crap in high school)) I only attended one school dance at my high school (freshman year homecoming) and had never attended a single football game, my "curfew" was sometimes 3 or 4 (school ends at 3ish and she used to call the home phone to make sure I was home(i lived close by but I sometimes had to jump the fence to be able to make it in time for the Fing phone call)) and I could never hangout with friends. I am in college now but due to the pandemic I am at home all day, and somehow I miss school bc at least I could go outside and see my friends. I had somehow convinced myself that my mother would let me go on this trip bc I've been stuck at home all day, the vaccine, and bc UCSC has bi-weekly covid tests for all their students meaning my friend definitely doesnt have covid and all my other friends are vaccinated and I'm responsible enough to wear a mask. But obviously I was wrong and now I'm super upset and want to get out of this relationship but cannot bc she has made it impossible for me to survive without her.