I 100% agree. It can really mess someone up. My boyfriend called me a ”dirty little slut” one time (he thought it would be hot and/or funny) I started crying. To be fair, I had been raised in an extremely protestant community where it was drilled into my head that if I have sex out of wedlock, I’d become a slut that no one would want, but please get permission to talk like that before you hurt someone.
Yes I totally agree with you. When I saw the seme talking something like that, I changed my point of view about him. After the relationship has gotten better I continued disgusting him. Sorry for my english.
when the seme called the uke slut cause OHH BOII WAS I FUCKING PISSED! He did apologise for it BUT STILL, I'm not fond of the seme till the end.
No matter what's your relationship with the other person is or the situation you're facing, saying/calling them with a sexual insult or slur such as slut, prostitute, etc is UNACCEPTABLE to me. Especially when one considers using it as a "dirty talk" during sex (unless desired by the person(s) involved) or when an argument occurred.
All in all, this is just my stance and its fine if there's some disagreement cause everyone has their own opinions.