I told my boyfriend and he made me promised to never read it around him. Well one time he got me mad so I forced him to read a neko boy yaoi with me :3. He got over it.
When I told my girlfriend she got really confused why I read it, so I suggest some light ones to her. She still didn't get it, well long story sort. She went through my history and find Honto Yajuu and became addicted.
Everyone even strangers except my family excluding my cousins know I read yaoi. Im very open about it.
For people who are married or have boyfriend or girlfriend, do you eventually tell them that you read yaoi. If you did how did your partner react(〜 ̄△ ̄)〜