I also like yaoi w/ good stories, here's my list:
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/56720/
these I highly recommend:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/aitsu_no_daihonmei/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hidamari_ga_kikoeru/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hanaya_no_nikai_de/
Here's my slowpace collection http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/47826/ I have marked the ones with a fast physical development so depends on you if you still want to check them out.
For an idea, ichikawa's slow starter belong in my list too
I really like yaoi manga that move at a slower place and have a lot of character development. Some of my favorite stories are those written by Takarai Rihito, Abe Miyuki and Ichikawa Kei. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for some similar works! ^^