I know right !
Recently I started reading the remarried empress again snd can't help swoon sincr heinley was so sweet(≧∀≦)
Man I stopped reading that around ch 40ish because I was so frustrated like it's not good for my heart
Fucking trashta
But in exchange, we got an FL who mainly uses their Left brain so...I mean it really didn't change we just switched the gender of who had the cool(?), cold(?) personality. Naiver is a good girl don't get me wrong but her reason for marrying Heinely wasn't for love but rather an anxiety about her purpose in life...which is understandable considering she was raised her whole life to be an empress only to get tossed to the side.
SPOILER FOR THE HUSBAND
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The reason why he ignored the daughter cuz she got born of the previous woman who raped him when he was teenage... u saw early in the chapter the husband was hallucinating or seeing some ghost woman who was saying she will forever curse him or be with him bruh. The husband is basically traumatized by that woman.
I could already guess this but that doesn't mean he can neglect a complete innocent child. I can't forgive him for that. Poor our innocent Blanche
you need to read "a way to protect you sweetheart"
what about his trauma is he suppose to ignore what happened to him. He probably knows that the princess isn't at fault but sometimes its hard to get over something horrible that happened to you. Men also have emotions. This type of thing happens to women all the time, when they can't feel any emotion for their own child because just looking at them is a reminder of the horror that they lived. Blanche is innocent, but so was the King. He most likely needs therapy to get over what happened to him.
I shall
Trashta will always be trash but I can't stop reading it hoping for a happy ending for the navier and heinley(≧∀≦)
Tbh I legit sad at the fact that navier treat heinely quite cold. I mean can't blame her as she's not used to be lovey dovey but seeing heinley sad or confused with her attitude just break my heart. My poor cute queen （/TДT)/
I said what I said knowing this fact. I know about that kind of trauma and postpartum depression (for woman). He has trauma for woman and I know it. But, is it okay to forgive him just because he is having a trauma? He still hurting a child and her future. I hope.. he will say sorry to Blanche when he overcome his trauma.
Is it also okay to ignore the fact that he got r*** and he cant look at his child without remembering it. Don't get me wrong Blanche is adorable child that needs all the love in the world, and I'm sure he will apologies (probably with the help of the FL) and hopefully he tells her the reason for him being so cold to her as a child, so she can fully understanding the situation. But a lot of people cant get over this type of thing, Blanche and her father or both Victims in this situation and that shouldn't be looked over because his an adult.
Excuse me but tf? He was r*pe. Do you understand? R*pe. It’s not easy for ANY victims to just get over their trauma that their attacker cause. Even women have a hard time getting emotionally close to the child of their attacker. It’s not his fault that he have a phobia and trauma that was caused by a woman. He knows it’s not his daughter fault but he can’t help but look at her and remember when he was attacked. He was young when it happens too. He never had a chance to heal. He had to grow up and handle the responsibility of a king.
Tf do you mean “is it still okay to forgive him” Hell yes it is. I can understand if he was abusing them but he not. He just cold and he have his reasons for being that way.
If he was a woman would you still be saying that? Male victims matters just as much as female victims. Absolutely disgusting how you and others like you think.
Ofc I know what happen to him. God it's not like I don't understand him. I said I won't forgive him until he apologize to Blanche. And I hate the woman that rape him. You ask what if he was a woman? My answer will be same. Won't forgive until she apologize. Again I said it's not like I don't understand what he have gone through. I FULLY understand. But I, have been in Blanche situation and-- sigh... So you call me disgusting? I guess so. I'm disgusting af.
I didn't overlooked it and I understand his situation. I never said that I don't understand him. I get it.
You been in Blanche situation but have you been in his? I’ve been and is still in the situation that blanche is going through. But I’m not gonna say to my father or any victims “I won’t forgive him until he apologizes” I already forgive him even if he didn’t apologize yet and understand that he the way he is because of his past and those situations really fuck up people mindset especially if they never receive the help they need. Yes the child is not and will never ever be at fault. And yes the child and the fl is also a victim. But so is he, instead of saying “I won’t forgive him until he apologizes” truthfully it’s not yours, mine’s, or anyone place to forgive him since it doesn’t involve us. Y’all pick and choose sides and hate on people without knowing the full story. And start jumping on the hate wagon. Stay neutral until you find out the full story.
I’m not saying he doesn’t deserve to apologize because he definitely do and he will. But what i am saying is that it’s not our place to dictate if we forgive him or not.
I don't want to put more fire into this situation but I think you're looking at it in a modern way instead of an historical way. It was usual for parents to be distant from their children. He was r*ped and thus didn't have any kind of relationship with his daughter but he is a king and I don't think you can still be an effective ruler if you let that trauma sweep you : he must have countless of other ones ! I'm not denying his trauma but I think it doesn't excuse the neglect. He doesn't even want to know if she's treated right or not. He's ignoring her and only tolerating her existence. In this way he's no different than any noble and I think in his case redemption is possible. But you have to accept that he contributed to her harm and she's probably traumatized in her own way too. Being a victim does not give you the right to be an abuser in return !
User Natsu. I'm sorry for saying this but... I kind of happy reading your latest replies. It's not like I don't understand him but... it's just a bit frustrating you know.. when I remember back what happen, it's just so frustrating. If it's not for others support, idk what happen to me. I know and I understand him but maybe... I just wish for an apology at least. I deserve at least that. Maybe, I'm just not strong enough or maybe I'm just toxic but it's a bit hard for me. If my way of thinking disgust you, then let it be that way. Sorry for suddenly getting emotional here.
Tbh sometimes I'm sick with all cold ml characters. I mean give us a break we need a loving man ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ