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is someone has the same problem with me?? well i like to read yaoi manga and im proud of i...

moclover June 5, 2016 3:28 pm

is someone has the same problem with me??
well i like to read yaoi manga and im proud of it... my friends (all my friends are girl) know about it and didint really care about it
but its just that some of them started to avoid me
i dont know why but she just avoid me
i ever ask them but they say its just my imagination
but i have a feeling that its real not just my imagination

is someone has the same problem with me?? or it is just my imagination??

sorry for my bad english

Responses
    BDSMLover June 5, 2016 3:48 pm

    I am a guy.. and i am opened that i said i like yaoi to everybody except my parents lol.. my friends are avoid me .. and i don't really care.. it feels a little lonely.. but alone in school really is peacefull .. and i used to be alone now. . ( ̄へ ̄)

    nickname June 5, 2016 3:52 pm

    I don;t know, I don't have friends in real life.

    moclover June 5, 2016 3:59 pm
    I am a guy.. and i am opened that i said i like yaoi to everybody except my parents lol.. my friends are avoid me .. and i don't really care.. it feels a little lonely.. but alone in school really is peacefull ... BDSMLover

    well
    in my school lonely people always get bullied
    nobody care you are a girl or a boy
    and its kinda scary ╥﹏╥
    my classmate is a loner and she get bullied a lot
    and iam really scared to think that someday i'll get bullied too ╥﹏╥

    deriantos June 5, 2016 4:25 pm

    I only accept the ones who would accept me for who i'm without judging me , for me that's just 1 person my best friend and only advice and help me if he felt i needed , even this type of people pretty rare but they are your real friends , anyone who walk away from you leave them , it's because they could never be perfect so they want everything perfect around them other than that they will never accept : )

    mew June 5, 2016 5:08 pm

    It's normal. If people can't associate with something they'll avoid it.

    moclover June 5, 2016 5:21 pm
    I don;t know, I don't have friends in real life. nickname

    woww.. it must be somewhat nice but i thinks i still need friend at least 1 or 2

    moclover June 5, 2016 5:23 pm
    I only accept the ones who would accept me for who i'm without judging me , for me that's just 1 person my best friend and only advice and help me if he felt i needed , even this type of people pretty rare but ... deriantos

    yeah you're right
    i really want someone who can accept me like who i was
    its just to rare and so hard to get

    moclover June 5, 2016 5:30 pm
    It's normal. If people can't associate with something they'll avoid it. @mew

    but if they didin't like it..then they just have to say so
    i am a person who can get their complaint or i think people say open-minded
    and i will never get angry if they just say it
    its hurt when your friends just avoid you and they never say anything.
    i never read yaoi in front of them, i read it when i am alone or in quite place when there is less person..
    and i am not that bold to read it in public or in front of my friends or my family
    ussualy if they didnt like something they always say it.. its just this time they didnt tell me anything

    nickname June 5, 2016 5:42 pm
    woww.. it must be somewhat nice but i thinks i still need friend at least 1 or 2 moclover

    hmm, originally,.. there's no one can live "happilly" by himself / herself on their life.
    we need someone else, we need other people.

    deriantos June 5, 2016 6:01 pm
    hmm, originally,.. there's no one can live "happilly" by himself / herself on their life.we need someone else, we need other people. nickname

    well , you will find someone who would be with you and understand you , maybe 2 or even 3 , the only issue they are rare , but sure you will meet some who would accept you for who your , others who avoid you or leave you they are just not worth it ... just i will say i live alone for 4 years now rarely gets visits from my best friend and happy with my life this way ..

    moclover June 5, 2016 6:22 pm
    hmm, originally,.. there's no one can live "happilly" by himself / herself on their life.we need someone else, we need other people. nickname

    well you are right
    i am gald to talk this in here

    Lilypad June 5, 2016 6:23 pm

    Okay
    So i have couple of friends who know that i like yaoi
    I only told this to mh close friends and even they find it weird
    They tell me that i am abnormal sometimes xD
    They even ignore me when i start talking about yaoi but not like ignore me all the time
    And for the others i just keep it a secret because they wont really understand and will take me for a weirdo :p
    In your case i think you should talk to them probably it must be something else they are angry about
    Since you dont nag them with yaoi it shouldnt concern them
    But if you have a homophobic crowd around you yaoi might be the reason

    But anyway dont let it get to you
    Yaoi will always be there for you ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    moclover June 5, 2016 6:27 pm
    well , you will find someone who would be with you and understand you , maybe 2 or even 3 , the only issue they are rare , but sure you will meet some who would accept you for who your , others who avoid you or... deriantos

    are you not feeling lonely??
    i mean well sometime i like to be alone
    but i still need someone to talk to
    i have a puppy and i often talk with him
    i even talk with my doll when i feel so bored because no one i can talk to

    deriantos June 5, 2016 7:06 pm
    Okay So i have couple of friends who know that i like yaoi I only told this to mh close friends and even they find it weird They tell me that i am abnormal sometimes xD They even ignore me when i start talking ... Lilypad

    Don't worry too much , life is too short for worries / doubts , to deal with such issues just keep it as a secret from other not everyone should know your interests , as long as your close friends know it's cool so it should feel easier this way but others deal with as you normally do and keep your secrets hidden , there are nasty people around who would use any knowledge to hurt you even just for fun

    deriantos June 5, 2016 7:17 pm
    are you not feeling lonely?? i mean well sometime i like to be alone but i still need someone to talk to i have a puppy and i often talk with himi even talk with my doll when i feel so bored because no one i ca... moclover

    i have so much pride in myself , but since easier to speak online , well yes i feel lonely , but sometimes being alone much better than with people , for me to feel better i write texts on my pc about what i feel and such , listening to some music , play online games or work since i work online from my home , you can say some experience in life you can't get over it , but for you , experience life and what it shares there are many good things in life , and many adventures to seek , talking to your puppy or doll , it's really sad , i don't know how old are you but believe me in life so many things to seek and to experience , try it and face your life head on , you will say i could say the same to you , but well i will answer you then my experience i know i could try and such but i couldn't get over my last experience .. sorry was kinda long ..

    Mero June 5, 2016 7:45 pm

    In highschool, I told my few friends I read yaoi and they didnt really mind. In fact 2 of them started reading yaoi too and my best friend tried it out and got scarred for life xD(shes really innocent). I also made yaoi jokes in highschool with my yaoi friends about what guys we shipped together. We even got this "I love my uke" and "i love my seme" pins and put them on two guys we shipped together and took a picture xD They let us put the pins on them but they didn't really know what it meant. I don't personally wear an "I like yaoi" label on my forehead and there's no way in hell I could ever tell my parents, but I'm cool with letting my close friends know and thankfully my friends never really changed their behaviour towards me. But in the end I only have a handful of close friends and since we're so open with each other, I don't think they would turn their backs at me. Also, if anyone else ever found out I liked yaoi and started avoiding me I wouldnt really give a fuck though cause I'm very introverted and I honestly don't care about what people think (xept my parents omg xD). Pretty sure almost everyone has watched porn so who cares if I read yaoi. It's way more healthy. It's very hypocritical to judge someone about what they like when you aren't a saint yourself.

    moclover June 5, 2016 8:06 pm
    Okay So i have couple of friends who know that i like yaoi I only told this to mh close friends and even they find it weird They tell me that i am abnormal sometimes xD They even ignore me when i start talking ... Lilypad

    yeah i will try to talk with them again

    moclover June 5, 2016 8:12 pm
    i have so much pride in myself , but since easier to speak online , well yes i feel lonely , but sometimes being alone much better than with people , for me to feel better i write texts on my pc about what i fe... deriantos

    i am 17 yo and yes i still talk to my dog and my doll
    sometimes when i angry or sad... theres a problem that we cant share with others like family problem.
    i dont know why but it just feel like my problem is gone from sometime
    i feel like i finally can say it, i can say anything in my heart well eventhough i didnt het any answer but it worth it

    deriantos June 5, 2016 8:22 pm
    i am 17 yo and yes i still talk to my dog and my dollsometimes when i angry or sad... theres a problem that we cant share with others like family problem.i dont know why but it just feel like my problem is gone... moclover

    Because you started to figure out and understand yourself more , less struggle , feels you know what you want to do , the least about parts of your like , , more like a huge connected puzzles the more you solve , the more trust and believe you have in yourself and like the weight of world became much less heavier , like free spirit .. that's really a good thing , keep it up

    moclover June 5, 2016 8:26 pm
    In highschool, I told my few friends I read yaoi and they didnt really mind. In fact 2 of them started reading yaoi too and my best friend tried it out and got scarred for life xD(shes really innocent). I also ... @Mero

    its a better reaction then mine
    one of my friend angry and telling me that iam a pervert
    one of my friend just say "oh" and then she ignorn me (but she still playing with me)
    one of my friend even recommended me to read yuri (and i reject it of course)
    one of my friend is a pervert so she make dirty joke with it ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ and i got 7 friends and now 3 of it already avoid me