I only accept the ones who would accept me for who i'm without judging me , for me that's just 1 person my best friend and only advice and help me if he felt i needed , even this type of people pretty rare but they are your real friends , anyone who walk away from you leave them , it's because they could never be perfect so they want everything perfect around them other than that they will never accept : )
It's normal. If people can't associate with something they'll avoid it.
but if they didin't like it..then they just have to say so
i am a person who can get their complaint or i think people say open-minded
and i will never get angry if they just say it
its hurt when your friends just avoid you and they never say anything.
i never read yaoi in front of them, i read it when i am alone or in quite place when there is less person..
and i am not that bold to read it in public or in front of my friends or my family
ussualy if they didnt like something they always say it.. its just this time they didnt tell me anything
well , you will find someone who would be with you and understand you , maybe 2 or even 3 , the only issue they are rare , but sure you will meet some who would accept you for who your , others who avoid you or leave you they are just not worth it ... just i will say i live alone for 4 years now rarely gets visits from my best friend and happy with my life this way ..
Okay
So i have couple of friends who know that i like yaoi
I only told this to mh close friends and even they find it weird
They tell me that i am abnormal sometimes xD
They even ignore me when i start talking about yaoi but not like ignore me all the time
And for the others i just keep it a secret because they wont really understand and will take me for a weirdo :p
In your case i think you should talk to them probably it must be something else they are angry about
Since you dont nag them with yaoi it shouldnt concern them
But if you have a homophobic crowd around you yaoi might be the reason
But anyway dont let it get to you
Yaoi will always be there for you ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
Don't worry too much , life is too short for worries / doubts , to deal with such issues just keep it as a secret from other not everyone should know your interests , as long as your close friends know it's cool so it should feel easier this way but others deal with as you normally do and keep your secrets hidden , there are nasty people around who would use any knowledge to hurt you even just for fun
i have so much pride in myself , but since easier to speak online , well yes i feel lonely , but sometimes being alone much better than with people , for me to feel better i write texts on my pc about what i feel and such , listening to some music , play online games or work since i work online from my home , you can say some experience in life you can't get over it , but for you , experience life and what it shares there are many good things in life , and many adventures to seek , talking to your puppy or doll , it's really sad , i don't know how old are you but believe me in life so many things to seek and to experience , try it and face your life head on , you will say i could say the same to you , but well i will answer you then my experience i know i could try and such but i couldn't get over my last experience .. sorry was kinda long ..
In highschool, I told my few friends I read yaoi and they didnt really mind. In fact 2 of them started reading yaoi too and my best friend tried it out and got scarred for life xD(shes really innocent). I also made yaoi jokes in highschool with my yaoi friends about what guys we shipped together. We even got this "I love my uke" and "i love my seme" pins and put them on two guys we shipped together and took a picture xD They let us put the pins on them but they didn't really know what it meant. I don't personally wear an "I like yaoi" label on my forehead and there's no way in hell I could ever tell my parents, but I'm cool with letting my close friends know and thankfully my friends never really changed their behaviour towards me. But in the end I only have a handful of close friends and since we're so open with each other, I don't think they would turn their backs at me. Also, if anyone else ever found out I liked yaoi and started avoiding me I wouldnt really give a fuck though cause I'm very introverted and I honestly don't care about what people think (xept my parents omg xD). Pretty sure almost everyone has watched porn so who cares if I read yaoi. It's way more healthy. It's very hypocritical to judge someone about what they like when you aren't a saint yourself.
i am 17 yo and yes i still talk to my dog and my doll
sometimes when i angry or sad... theres a problem that we cant share with others like family problem.
i dont know why but it just feel like my problem is gone from sometime
i feel like i finally can say it, i can say anything in my heart well eventhough i didnt het any answer but it worth it
Because you started to figure out and understand yourself more , less struggle , feels you know what you want to do , the least about parts of your like , , more like a huge connected puzzles the more you solve , the more trust and believe you have in yourself and like the weight of world became much less heavier , like free spirit .. that's really a good thing , keep it up
its a better reaction then mine
one of my friend angry and telling me that iam a pervert
one of my friend just say "oh" and then she ignorn me (but she still playing with me)
one of my friend even recommended me to read yuri (and i reject it of course)
one of my friend is a pervert so she make dirty joke with it ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ and i got 7 friends and now 3 of it already avoid me
is someone has the same problem with me??
well i like to read yaoi manga and im proud of it... my friends (all my friends are girl) know about it and didint really care about it
but its just that some of them started to avoid me
i dont know why but she just avoid me
i ever ask them but they say its just my imagination
but i have a feeling that its real not just my imagination
is someone has the same problem with me?? or it is just my imagination??
sorry for my bad english