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am i getting old?

TUTU June 11, 2016 6:13 pm

lately, when i come across yaoi manga with couples where one character is underage, or both of them are not even in high school yet, i feel this enormous sense of guilt.... like im think why can't you grow fasteeeeerrr. xD that's one of the main reasons i cant continue reading super lovers even though its sooo adorable. its just the kid is not even in high school and the other dude is in his 20s. like maan, i feel so wrong xD
is this what adulthood is?

Responses
    Aka no Hana June 11, 2016 6:20 pm

    I don't think that just because you're an adult, you will definitely view relationships between two males that have a large age difference to be wrong. It's just your personal opinion

    TUTU June 11, 2016 6:34 pm

    nah, its not realy between two males. that really has nothing to do. i mean if i read shoujo like that it would both me too. but i just dont read much shoujo so thats why i talked about yaoi :D also age gap doesnt bother me. what bothers me is when one is under age. so i would care if they would be 20 and 60 but if they are 14 and 30 it bothers me xD i know know hypocritical of me but i just wondered if anyone felt that way too?
    idk, i mean im happy they all love each other and all, but it just sometimes i start thinking that one of them is still too young lol. never bothered me before until now.

    TUTU June 11, 2016 6:36 pm

    omg i cant spell so in shoujo sentence "both" is "bother" and in 20 and 60 sentence instead of "would" its "would not" xD

    deriantos June 11, 2016 6:43 pm

    well in my personal opinion , i see manga or books just to entertain people , just as fiction since life is not as perfect or as crazy as what we read in manga or books , guilt if such fiction would effect your judgement in real life , i'm 20s and i never had interest in Yaoi before just started reading less than 2 months ago , including super lovers this is just a fiction from writers minds , so it's more like you wished to have such love feelings like that when you were still young or maybe wasn't as perfect or as good as as you wanted it to be , well all i do is just assuming , so don't take it personal , since i can't judge someone i don't know , well it's not adulthood it's something from your past effecting how you see things this part i'm sure about ... well 20s is the age you start knowing who you are and decide the person you wanna be , we are who we are because of our past experience , knowledge and cultures we raised under : ) wish i could be some help & again don't take anything i said personal

    TUTU June 11, 2016 6:52 pm
    well in my personal opinion , i see manga or books just to entertain people , just as fiction since life is not as perfect or as crazy as what we read in manga or books , guilt if such fiction would effect your... deriantos

    true true, haha i still read a lot of stories like that. its just sometimes that thought comes to mind and i think if im doing something wrong? xD but yeah you are right it's just fiction. thank youu! :3

    deriantos June 11, 2016 7:03 pm
    true true, haha i still read a lot of stories like that. its just sometimes that thought comes to mind and i think if im doing something wrong? xD but yeah you are right it's just fiction. thank youu! :3 TUTU

    Your welcome : ) , well yes it's just a fiction , life isn't that perfect , this is why manga , books , movies , tv shows we enjoy and the habit of killing time just excuse , we all seeking something good or perfect beyond this life , i'm a male yet i like reading Yaoi which i used to hate , because i found some beauty in the stories and love as well as perfection which i could never feel in real life : ) , adulthood is about understanding life and how to face it , but before that face yourself and your past , that what i did and still do : ) , sorry again if i expressed my opinion in kinda harsh way , but still reality is much more harsh so i just go to the fact or the point , but keeping in mind your stranger i don't know you , so i apologize if i said anything in harsh words : )

    takame June 11, 2016 8:19 pm

    Well, i am an obasan. It's meh for me but i'd still read it if given a chance. But generally, I pass over any plot based shota. but if it's smut, everything is fair game.(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ