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In need of words of encouragement

Mew June 16, 2016 3:48 pm

Hey guys, this is kind of sad. Mostly for me. I hope you could help lift up my feelings again...
Earlier I went to the vet for my cat cause he cant move. We found out he's paralyzed. Pray he'll get better please but this isnt about him.
When we come in, there were 3 people waiting. 1 of them is my aunt coincidentally. Another was a girl with this black puppy. She said it's a stray she picked up a few days ago. Apparently he had a constipation. He can't poop but because he keep trying to, his intestine kinda went out. We had to wait for an hour for the doctor to arrive. Then the first patient goes. The second is my aunt but because the puppy was in so much pain. Howling and such. My aunt let the girl go first. The girl came out crying. With red nose and all. I thought its because the doc perform a surgery or something. At first I thought he was ok... but when my mum and aunt went in, they asked about the puppy, apparently, they had to put him down... And, it finally register to me that the puppy is dead. So Im feeling sad. While waiting for the doc, I couldnt sit still because hearing the puppy cries in pain breaks my heart... I thought the doc could safe him but... yeah. So sad... ╥﹏╥

Responses
    Nanayo~Black June 16, 2016 4:03 pm

    are you okay???

    Mew June 16, 2016 4:05 pm
    are you okay??? Nanayo~Black

    Im trying not to cry a bucket but really, I cant stop myself. I really believed that he would come out healthy. Never thought I see the day an animal had to be put down like that... I feel very sad.

    zephyr4 June 16, 2016 4:16 pm

    That's whyy mother doesn't allow me to keep pets. The pain is real when you lose one. I had like 4 cats and 2 kittens. Both the kittens were so cute. One day one of them disappeared and we looked all over for it for days only to find its body later on. And the second one contracted some kind of seasonal flu and the vet did all his best to save him...a few days later he also died. ╥﹏╥
    Since then I've never kept pets..,.
    Anyways it'll take a few days for you to get over it but bear in mind that things like this happen all the time and if the doggy was in so much pain then maybe dying was better for him.
    I pray for your cat too. I'm a devoted cat lover.
    Cheer up! :) it's ok to cry but we need to be strong too. Things will be fine: ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

    Mew June 16, 2016 4:27 pm
    That's whyy mother doesn't allow me to keep pets. The pain is real when you lose one. I had like 4 cats and 2 kittens. Both the kittens were so cute. One day one of them disappeared and we looked all over for i... zephyr4

    Thank you... Im used to cats.. Missing and death. But even now I still have 7 of em. It's just that this is the first time Im seeing a dog's death. Only ever seen it on television. Didn't know it would hurt like this. Reminds me of back when my beloved cat went missing. I cried so hard.

    zephyr4 June 16, 2016 4:32 pm
    Thank you... Im used to cats.. Missing and death. But even now I still have 7 of em. It's just that this is the first time Im seeing a dog's death. Only ever seen it on television. Didn't know it would hurt lik... Mew

    Uwaaaahhh you'll make me cry now....:(

    Nanayo~Black June 16, 2016 4:52 pm

    me too...
    now im cry by you all...

    Elsa June 16, 2016 6:40 pm

    You are such an emotional person. Embrace it! It's alright to cry when you are feeling sad. No need to be embarrassed about it or anything. Once you have cried it all out, remind yourself about the life the pet had (or might have had if it wasn't yours): all the good things, how it was loved and cared for. And how it helped him to be left out of it's misery. It's sad, yes, but the doctors always think what's for the best. I personally think it is best to put the dog to sleep instead of letting it suffer for years just because I am too scared to let go.

    These are the tings every pet owner will face at some point. But usually the ride is worth it!

    I for example had a bunny for two weeks, my first pet ever, and had to let go of her because I was allergic to the hay. I did everything I could, but still had to let her go. Granted, she didn't die and hopefully found a new home, but still, the pain of letting go is hard. I cried for a full four days before I focused on the good things she gave me. In such a short time, she helped me a lot with my depression and anxiety, gave me love in a way I can't explain. Was there for me when I felt lonely. She made me happy, made me want to take care of myself again. Though I feel emotional right now, writing this, I have no regrets of buying her. No regrets of keeping her for even such a short time. I could see she was as happy with me as I was with her. And that thought I want to embrace, forever.