Yes, that's the worst, especially if people isnt bother as long as the oe sleeping around is the seme. I hate it when people percept that it is okay to sleep around as long as they are not in a relationship (in seme stance)
HOWEVER,
People percept that it is not okay to sleep around and (NOTE!!!) must be virgin and pure, if the it is the "uke stance"
Im not saying that it is okay for the uke to be slut cause I dislike uke who slept around but I more importantly I likely dislike seme who slept around.
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Yes, that's the worst, especially if people isnt bother as long as the one sleeping around is the seme. I hate it when people percept that it is okay to sleep around as long as they are not in a relationship (in seme stance)
HOWEVER,
People percept that it is not okay to sleep around and (NOTE!!!) must be virgin and pure, if it is the "uke stance"
Im not saying that it is okay for the uke to be slut cause I also dislike uke who slept around but more importantly I dislike the cliche type playboy seme who slept around.
Sexual purity is a construct (by this I mean mostly religion). How much importance you put to a sexual act is what I think is the correct way to look at it. If you think it should be shared by someone you love, you do you. If it's simply gratification, you do what you need to get that. As long as you're not hurting anyone.

........not many but maybe two, My question is, Does it bother you when a main love interest in a manhwa/manga/yaoi/yuri/straight story already likes/loves (still not in a relationship) the main character but is still having sex with other people????
Ive read this one yaoi manhwa where the ML stopped having sex with his sex friends cause he realizes he loves the main character now
Ive also read on straight manga where ML loves FL but still has sex with many people. And is enthuastically talking about the girl the ML loves to his sex friend