I like strong and arrogant uke not the girly one

Same. I love yaoi, but sometimes I wish it was more realistic. In real life, I have never met a "girly" guy, so when I see "girly" characters in yaoi mangas, I kinda loose interest.

Same here. It's a bit disappointing when its always a girly uke. I've met a couple men who act a bit girly but they don't look girlish like most ukes do. Plus making a guy look and act like a girl while still being male feels kind of fake when your not trying to write about male to female or vise versa type of manga.