And this is all my opinion, so if you like this manga do ahead. Everyone has their kinks and tastes but i just don't like one character in this story.
I agree with you, seems like he doesn't even realise that he did commit an actual rape, I really don't like how it seem to be going...
While I obviously agree that rape should never be justified, I'm pretty sure he is well aware that what he did in the past did infact traumatized the guy he's in love with. That's why he felt terrible and apologized knowing that he would still be hated. If you have read the update, it shows how the seme tries to restrain himself from forcing himself once again. When we saw the part of sticking his finger inside the uke, he was actually seeing if the boy had became lose with other men. Which boy wasn't infact sleeping around. Anyways, the seme is now tying to win back the uke's love by treating him alot better than he did in the past.
Fr, all he knows is he traumatized the dude the but doesn't get why because he thinks the UKE seduced him. From the way it played out, it seems like he did in fact go further than the uke was expecting. A blow job sure but then after that, he didn't want anymore.
He's very aware indeed. I've read the update, I've seen the regret he has, and he's repeating past actions. I'm sure if it his butt hole was loose he would've gone further. He exclaimed the difference between now and then, is he won't run away. I would've had a lot more respect for him of he kept his hands off him from the beginning, a kiss maybe but there are so many other ways to win him back that didn't involve what he's done. The blowjob uke gave, since he initiated was fine but seme pushed farther. I condemn him for holding back but that was only after his discovery...
However even saying this, I try to respect others opinions, I agree with that you're saying and the story revolves that intended purpose-basicallg what you wrote is a great summary and analysis. But in the end, in my eyes, it seems the way it was portrayed came off as a little twisted.
Holy fucking shit, you have no idea how much respect you gained from me, seriously. It's so hard to have a simple conversation these days discussing different opinions. And I also very much respect that you didn't make it into some petty argument or something bigger. Like fuck, I wish I could talk with more people like you tbh. But yeah, I can definitely see your point of view, and I wished he didn't go further as well... I just really hope that he just gets some better character development as this manga progresses.
Lol thank you! I try to keep balanced on my opinions, cause at the end of the day it's my POV versus someone else's. I hate petty arguments, like I expect it on the Internet but I think would these people even say some of this in real life? It's crazy that you see someone daily that appears normal but they get petty and really angry over stupid stuff on the Internet.
Me too, in a way he can redeem himself.
Literally I feel the same. All these people be acting two-faced just cause they're on the internet.
Yeah don't blame the UKE for seducing you, the face he makes sure turns you on but that's not a seduce. If this was more of a twisted story involving rape that evokes characters and their complexes then yeah, but this manga is trying to make it light hearted and accepting. I don't don't like such semes'. For those who say don't read it, well guess what you expect a story to progress to have a reason for why such things happened, expect to see a change in the seme. But he's the exact same. Now out of the stories I read with Yaoi involved, I've only come across 3 that involve the seme blaming the uke for his actions. Only 3. This is the 3rd.