god why is the ML such an asshole to her from the VERY start? he didn't even bother to try...

god why is the ML such an asshole to her from the VERY start? he didn't even bother to try to talk to her like a normal human being does to another! he didn't even try to meet her after the wedding! WTF is wrong with his mind?!! and he really thought this marriage will work with him acting like this?! really?!
I'm surprised she didn't ask for a divorce after a year!
the misunderstanding could have easily been solve if they just, you know, TALK with each other! but no, it seems both are too dumb to do that either! but especially cause ML is annoying! he is soo damn obnoxious despite the story try to make it look like he is "nice" sometimes.
I'm not even bothering to talk about the asshole brother that ruins her marriage life in the very start, he can go and burn in hell for all I care! why did she even turn to this asshole?! she should have stopped talking to him all together! god they both so dumb and so unrealistic it is ridiculous