like don’t judge me, it’s just how i think. so first of all i hate man who cheat and lie, those things is what i cannot forgive (not only men, but people in general), but looking at their relationship (before brake up) they aren’t that close. at first relationship between lovers starts with love, enthusiasm, tension, affection, interest, wanting each other and literally all new feelings that comes with this. i haven’t read other story but as i can understand they had perfect relationship and been together for 5 years. i can say opposite people always attract each other and start of relationship is really interesting but with time it’s gets to start boring, it’s nothing new and if partners aren’t going to listen each other and share their thoughts it’s isn’t going to work. so he cheated on her not bc he didn’t loved her, but bc he didn’t get the attention he needed from her. there is always reason before action. and that girl used this shit as great opportunity and seduced him. same could happen with girl. i understand that you might be busy and all, but when you have partner and thinking about deep future with them, i think no metter how hard it is you still need to give them your affection, relationship while only one person is trying isn’t lasting long, both of them should try to be honest and genuine with each other (i have personal experience with this biased on my parents). i’m not telling he’s not guilty, just before judging u need to consider their feelings and situation. both of them. i hope they will have stabile relationship with next partners.
like don’t judge me, it’s just how i think. so first of all i hate man who cheat and lie, those things is what i cannot forgive (not only men, but people in general), but looking at their relationship (before brake up) they aren’t that close. at first relationship between lovers starts with love, enthusiasm, tension, affection, interest, wanting each other and literally all new feelings that comes with this. i haven’t read other story but as i can understand they had perfect relationship and been together for 5 years. i can say opposite people always attract each other and start of relationship is really interesting but with time it’s gets to start boring, it’s nothing new and if partners aren’t going to listen each other and share their thoughts it’s isn’t going to work. so he cheated on her not bc he didn’t loved her, but bc he didn’t get the attention he needed from her. there is always reason before action. and that girl used this shit as great opportunity and seduced him. same could happen with girl. i understand that you might be busy and all, but when you have partner and thinking about deep future with them, i think no metter how hard it is you still need to give them your affection, relationship while only one person is trying isn’t lasting long, both of them should try to be honest and genuine with each other (i have personal experience with this biased on my parents). i’m not telling he’s not guilty, just before judging u need to consider their feelings and situation. both of them. i hope they will have stabile relationship with next partners.