ok first thing i want to say is like readers should not hate kaoru ..he was just insecure and when we are anxious about future and already have a rotten past , people end up taking wrong step. Kaoru just wanted hara to be happy . BUT what he made hara go through was not right , he was scared because he thought that he would suffer the same way he did in past . but what about hara ,was hurting him right , you know hara loving kaoru after everything is great because sometimes even if we love someone it does not excuse them from hurting us, we may move on from that pain but it still lingers somewhere in our heart . insecurities and anxiousness does not give anyone a right to hurt someone because sometimes your simple but cruel words could kill someone. KAORU AND EVEN SOME READER WHO SAY THAT WHAT HE DID WAS RIGHT BECAUSE HE DID NOT WANT HARA TO BE UNHAPPY ...HOW DO YOU KNOW FUTURE ....EVEN I DONT KNOW WHAT IS GONNA HAPPEN TO ME ... just not wanting to hurt your loved one is already hurting them in some way... i feel really bad for kaoru cause love hurts more than anything and being broken so may times does hurt ....but i still think if he would have not found the rings what would have happened ...it was thanks to hara who was alway fighting for his love.... people who went through kaoru's pain understand his side but people who went through hara's pain understand him better.. this is my personal experience my aunt and uncle went through the somewhat similar situation...my aunt had ex boyfriends and one of them hurt her real bad so much so she stopped talking to everyone ....but with time which is 6.5 years she was able to fall in love again ..they even got married but you know a wound from love is hard to heal and that wound destroyed their marriage ..my uncle tired all he could but in the end her anxiousness got the better of her which resulted in my uncle dying....till this day her children blame her for their fathers death ....my aunt has not seen her kids for almost 12 years ...i do feel bad for what she went through but i still remember my uncles haggard figure ...IF you let your past haunt you ...your gonna destroy everything ...kaoru did the same thing ..though he suffered too.
ok first thing i want to say is like readers should not hate kaoru ..he was just insecure and when we are anxious about future and already have a rotten past , people end up taking wrong step. Kaoru just wanted hara to be happy .
BUT what he made hara go through was not right , he was scared because he thought that he would suffer the same way he did in past .
but what about hara ,was hurting him right , you know hara loving kaoru after everything is great because sometimes even if we love someone it does not excuse them from hurting us, we may move on from that pain but it still lingers somewhere in our heart . insecurities and anxiousness does not give anyone a right to hurt someone because sometimes your simple but cruel words could kill someone.
KAORU AND EVEN SOME READER WHO SAY THAT WHAT HE DID WAS RIGHT BECAUSE HE DID NOT WANT HARA TO BE UNHAPPY ...HOW DO YOU KNOW FUTURE ....EVEN I DONT KNOW WHAT IS GONNA HAPPEN TO ME ... just not wanting to hurt your loved one is already hurting them in some way... i feel really bad for kaoru cause love hurts more than anything and being broken so may times does hurt ....but i still think if he would have not found the rings what would have happened ...it was thanks to hara who was alway fighting for his love....
people who went through kaoru's pain understand his side but people who went through hara's pain understand him better..
this is my personal experience
my aunt and uncle went through the somewhat similar situation...my aunt had ex boyfriends and one of them hurt her real bad so much so she stopped talking to everyone ....but with time which is 6.5 years she was able to fall in love again ..they even got married but you know a wound from love is hard to heal and that wound destroyed their marriage ..my uncle tired all he could but in the end her anxiousness got the better of her which resulted in my uncle dying....till this day her children blame her for their fathers death ....my aunt has not seen her kids for almost 12 years ...i do feel bad for what she went through but i still remember my uncles haggard figure ...IF you let your past haunt you ...your gonna destroy everything ...kaoru did the same thing ..though he suffered too.