Granted Yoo il was unable to understand Ahjashi's perspective, yoo il was still the victim. Ahjashi tracked his location and his calender, then made plans ON PURPOSE on the same day as yoo il's uni trip, AND THEN PROCEEDED TO LIE ABOUT IT LIKE AW I DIDN'T KNOW CUZ YOU DIDN'T TELL ME and guittiped him into coming. If he was such an understanding adult, he wouldn't do such things. He was gaslighting him too when he was confronted about the location tracker. He would hardly ever be the first to contact Yoo il yet still wait for him to text/call first (until the part near their breakup). I can excuse not wanting to show pda in public or take pictures together, that just hurt the kid a bit but it wasn't the main problem. Ahjashi was even surprised when yoo il said he had told his friends about having a girlfriend (Ahjashi), like how much do you want to keep a secret? The man should at least be able to tell others that he is taken. Def deserved to be dumped but I simply cannot condone thw violent throwing of Ahjashi onto the sofa and the collar grabbing. That was a bit much.
Granted Yoo il was unable to understand Ahjashi's perspective, yoo il was still the victim. Ahjashi tracked his location and his calender, then made plans ON PURPOSE on the same day as yoo il's uni trip, AND THEN PROCEEDED TO LIE ABOUT IT LIKE AW I DIDN'T KNOW CUZ YOU DIDN'T TELL ME and guittiped him into coming. If he was such an understanding adult, he wouldn't do such things. He was gaslighting him too when he was confronted about the location tracker. He would hardly ever be the first to contact Yoo il yet still wait for him to text/call first (until the part near their breakup).
I can excuse not wanting to show pda in public or take pictures together, that just hurt the kid a bit but it wasn't the main problem.
Ahjashi was even surprised when yoo il said he had told his friends about having a girlfriend (Ahjashi), like how much do you want to keep a secret? The man should at least be able to tell others that he is taken.
Def deserved to be dumped but I simply cannot condone thw violent throwing of Ahjashi onto the sofa and the collar grabbing. That was a bit much.