Back again

I come back to read this once in a while because I love how subtle their chemistry is and I’m never disappointed at the light-hearted fluffy warm feelings it gives me. No matter what anyone else says, I find their chemistry very interesting and the bantering is a hundred percent my kind of thing. Maybe it’s because my parents are kind of similar to these two so their relationship dynamic is completely normal to me lol. I’m more of an “action speaks much louder than words” anyway and although the seme is cold sometimes, it is very obvious that he cares deeply for the uke. He knows when exactly it’s important to communicate and I think he needs someone brutally honest and straightforward like the uke to brighten him up. The uke knows he can be too forthcoming and aggressive at times and he’s apologized for that, but in the end, they both accepted each other for who they were and I think that’s most important.

Personally, I don’t find anything toxic about this relationship. As long as the two people understand each other’s needs and are able to accept them without feeling forced or uncomfortable, then it’s perfectly fine no matter how outsiders see it. There’s no such thing as a relationship that always goes the way you want it to anyway. That’s how it works in the real world anyway. What’s toxic to one person is not necessarily toxic to another. Like how sometimes we think our friends got a really shitty partner because you don’t like this or that about them and think it’s wrong or toxic but then they decide to stay together and actually made it work despite what you told them. Sometimes you were right and sometimes you weren’t lol you just got to accept some people will forever see things differently than you do (because they have their own life and experiences) and it isn’t wrong or dumb to feel different than others. Still one of my fav BL of all time! ^^