Correct me if im wrong

It's not her that's doing the grooming though? The guy's action are the one that are considered as grooming in my perspective

And out of curiosity, what do you call to younger people that like older people? Cause I think the guy should be called that one.

Hmm im not sure tho? Is there a word for it? English is not my first language (⊙…⊙ ) yeah i do think the guy is the one pursuing the fl right, but i watched this one yt video talking about grooming,, and it said that the adult in the relationship should be the one to refuse even when the younger one initiated it... though im not sure if that applies to this situation because the yt video talked about the position of both party in which the older person is superior than the younger. In this situation however, the guy is the superior one right coz hes like rich rich. Wah im confused

The FL would technically be called a “cougar” which is I guess slang for an older woman that dates or marries a younger man

Cougars are supposed to 40 yr old woman though that go after young men in their early 20s

Really? I thought it was just for any woman that was older than their boyfriend. Hmm I wonder if there is a slang word for a woman in her 20s that’s with a younger man

Well at least from my perspective cause anytime I've heard that term was when it was a 40+ woman going after men in their 20s. Even in most porn I've watched all of them had 40+ woman going after young men. And by actual definition it states from what I just looked up a older woman seeking young men. But in this case for the story shes not seeking a relationship with the boy but its him that wants the relationship with her.

Yall are a mess the man is a college student

It literally says it in the description "young university student" it isn't grooming because she isn't manipulating him into a sexual relationship and at most the age difference would be 4-5 years. There isn't a "word" to describe their relationship lmao. They're just two people with an age difference in an engagement.