I mean. this is casual buddy buddy sex. To each "couple" their own.... ????
It is quite intense...I could never do this irl.
It depends on the couples preference but there's always vanilla sex for you babe
This has a hint of bdsm like dom/sub segs
Ofc vanilla sex maybe wont have any toys and wont looks so intense but it really depends on couple and their taste howtheir segs turns out. Segs can be way more hardcore than this is or literally so gentle that this may actually look intense to you. But if both parties are alright eith kinks/fetishes then yes thats a normal segs for them lmao ( honestly idk if this helped somehow to understand better sbout segs)
yess it makes sense, i understand
i was a lil caught off guard by pushing out of the sex toy
Lmao same but i think its another fetish plus it might feel good idk :d looks weird for others but you know in yaoi word nothing is weird for both parties
i know righttt every time i read BLs like this one i'm always traumatized ಥ_ಥ
It's much much much more boring than this in real life. I assure u.
This is sexual abuse, so yeah it happens in real life that people get sexually abused.
Huh? What are you farting about?
They are consenting adults. No one is being threatened nor beaten up to do it.
Don't search up a lot of stuff. Lol. It gets really intense. Sure hetero sex can get wild but gay sex goes beyond, imo. I've seen too many...not just yaoi. Not just 2D. But 2D can be very disturbing too. Just stay on vanilla, I guess...
Are you seriously thinking this is a healthy sexual relationship of equal consent? The only reason Yeonwu is not asking for Taehwan to slow down or stop is he is infatuated, meanwhile Taehwan thinks of Yeonwu as nothing more than a toy to take out his anger and frustration on. It is in no way a healthy sexual relationship, and has actually sprung from a place of bullying and abuse. Go ahead and tell me I'm wrong, I'm dying to hear how you justify this 'relationship'. *chinhands*
but there's a difference in no consent and unhealthy sexual relationship, non con is rape whereas this is more of a unbalanced power dynamic
and most of all we can clearly see they both want it, yeonwu and taehwan both enjoy having sex with each other so i dont see any problem
You think sexual assault only happens when the person doesn't say no, or there's physical violence involved? There is an element of coercion here, even if Taehwan is not threatening Yeonwu with violence, he is still mistreating him and there's implied pressure of revoking his attention should Yeonwu give a displeasing answer or refuse his advances. Taehwan's attention didn't start innocently, it was a means to humiliate and hurt Yeonwu, it doesn't matter if he is enjoying the sex at this moment, the basis for this sexual relationship (I use the term loosely here because there is no relationship to speak of) is abusive.
Yeonwu not saying no and appearing to enjoy the sex or perpetuating his infatuation with Taehwan, despite being mistreated in several of their exchanges now, is no different than a person who is being groomed to love their abuser. He will enjoy the kiss as well, and perceive it as a step forward in their exchange, but does that make it an act of affection? It's a control mechanism. Taehwan is trying to brand his plaything as his, without respecting how Yeonwu feels at all. Taehwan is the most important person to Taehwan, he only cares about what he wants. Equal consent is when both parties are happy to engage in sexual acts without any coercion in the picture. This portrayal of sex is abusive, what is happening to Yeonwu is sexual abuse.
You might say Yeonwu can stop at any time. Sure, but does he want to lose his chance to hook up with a person he thinks he has no chance of being with normally? I doubt it. That is part of what makes Taehwan's manipulation so insidious. It's subtle, but it's there and it's what throws their exchanges into abusive territory, that and how shitty Taehwan treated Yeonwu to start with. He deliberately continues to test to see if Yeonwu still has sexual feelings for him, continues to push his buttons to see if Yeonwu still likes him like that, like with the caressing and the friendly talk. I dunno what to tell you if you can't see this.
I'm sorry but you just made Yeonwu weak, which he is not. Just because he is not retaliating against Taehwan, doesn't mean he's just letting himself be stepped over. Yeonwu is shy and lacks self-confidence. He's not going to give a happy enthusiastic face when Taehwan is instructing him to do something. He'll act shy and embarrassed but he is willing to do them because he personally finds them hot. Yeonwu is horny mf. And he knows the game. That's why he is keeping his distance, albeit he wanted them to be closer the way they used to. And yes Taehwan is manipulating Yeonwu but Yeonwu is unconsciously manipulating Taehwan, and Taehwan is unaware how much Yeonwu is winning over him. If you don't see this dynamic, idk anymore.
Yeonwu knows when to stop. After 10 chapters or so, he'll come to a point where he's going to make it stop because guess who broke the game? Taehwan. He's not suppose to care. That was the game. So all of this that we are seeing now is a game they naturally agreed to.
Yes Taehwan is an asshole to think Yeonwu does not have self-respect but he does. He has proved it before and actually will prove it again. So the way Taehwan is acting is being allowed by Yeonwu thus this is consensual. They don't need to write and sign a contract to do so. And shyness is not equal to agreeing out of coercion. Honestly, painting Yeonwu as weak is insulting.
And this "healthy sexual relationship". What do you want? Rainbows and candies? Shits and giggles? Doesn't matter who hurts who, point is they are allowing each other to do that. That is the basic definition of consent. And they are capable of stopping the situation if they don't want to.
I agree with you. but you really wrote a mf essay. go off ig.
I also replied to a mf essay, btw WAY longer than what I wrote. There's a lot to uncover on Yeonwu but people only see Taehwan's perspective yet are able to write long ass paragraphs covering only superficial points.
ah very well said
you put my thoughts into words
And (yes I'm not done yet, I don't think I have delivered my point properly) their consent is based from cues. Taehwan keeps pushing Yeonwu to see how far he will go. He's been waiting for Yeonwu to actually say no or refuse him properly, with conviction. If Yeonwu does, he will stop because Taehwan hates that Yeonwu is throwing himself at him.
While Yeonwu is waiting for Taehwan to stop and get bored with him, he's not expecting to be liked, he's not expecting to be each other's boyfriends. He's just in it for sex until Taehwan says he's done with it. Yeonwu's just in it for sex, maybe they'll be friends, and he's gonna continue to like him but that's it, nothing more. It's because he doesn't have the confidence to go or hope beyond that.
Ergo, consensual. Not the happy, healthy, equal things you find but it is consensual.
guys i'm asexual but is this how sex actually works irl it seems a lil intense no?