Donating sperm is one thing, but being involved in the child's life and keeping in contact with the bio mother (which Alex stated, he would probably do) is a complete deal breaker for me. I totally get Cole, if it was one time done thing and never see them again fine, but I'd be devastated to see my partner being all happy and friendly with a woman, he made a child with while being with me and having any kind of relationship with the child. You don't just make bio kids with other people, when you're in a committed relationship and your partner is completely against it.
Donating sperm is one thing, but being involved in the child's life and keeping in contact with the bio mother (which Alex stated, he would probably do) is a complete deal breaker for me. I totally get Cole, if it was one time done thing and never see them again fine, but I'd be devastated to see my partner being all happy and friendly with a woman, he made a child with while being with me and having any kind of relationship with the child.
You don't just make bio kids with other people, when you're in a committed relationship and your partner is completely against it.