and if you can't level the two things then you have to leave one, that how works in real life too, you can't expect have a lover and don't give them attention
It's tough but at the same time you shouldnt underestimate the importance of financial stability for the wellbeing of a couple. Might be very hard at first and get better in the future
Exactly like you are in a relationship for a reason
No one is forced to stay and be devoted to you despite you not doing anything for them
"HOW IS HE GOING TO STOP WORKING 24/7 JUST BECAUSE HIS PARTNER MISS HIM?? THAT'S SO TOXIC!!" sorry for thinking that if you have a partner you should make some time for them, i understand that nowdays everything's seems toxic but it's totally fine to sit and talk to your lover about how they're not giving you enough attention, it's not even about insecurities it's about being in a relationship