I'm demisexual (and straight BTW). I don't get attracted to somebody sexually unless I connect very, very strongly to that person on an emotional level. It takes a looooot of time and trust.
Then... I wonder if I'm a demisexual too... ((and straight))
Yes, you can, hence the term "demistraight". But I agree with you that demisexuals disregard gender. One can be demi- bi, gay, pan and who knows what else.
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And about wanting... It's not that I want a good connection with my partner or someone. It just happens on the way. It takes time until I "put my walls down" and "let sb in" or near me. And it's just a beginning.

I kinda not understand, even if I had read the articles. Just so annoying (╯°Д °)╯╧╧