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not sure if its this http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yume_no_you_na_hanashi/
It is the first one and thank you both for looking. I think that since I have read so many they start to meld together in to one super yaoi. But both of them are a definite reread
I always end up loosing this manga every time I finish reading it. But it involves two business men who's relationship begins because the blonde seme catches the ils reading something as mistakes him for liking s&m kinky things. He blackmails him a little and by the end they have paired rings.
There is a chapter in which the seme leaves the uke alone tied up and blindfolded as punishment for something and when he gets back the ule catches a cold and he ends up nursing him.