Hmmm she is a victim of neglect and verbal abuse and almost physical abuse he cheated cuz he could, he cheated cuz he wanted to put his dick in someone else vagina because he is an asshole, he isolates and berates his wife because he is an asshole, she cheated because deep done she knows he is cheating on her, she cheated because she is being neglected and her spirit is broken, she was seduced and taken advantage of at her weak moment, in all honesty she wouldn't have cheated of he was even the slightest bit of a decent person, but hey she did cheat, but it's hard to blame her, when he did it first how he treats her like the scum of the earth she probably just wanted to be treated like a person again, I can't blame her for that

I don't understand why she is desperate and in denial of the truth?. She is also a cheater