Why is r*pe and sexual assault so normalized in BL??? Why, in modern times, when we advocate for these things, is it so common for the top, (occasionally the bottom), to get aggressive and borderline obsessive instead of- idk- TALKING? Everyone here who can identify this would never be in a relationship with someone like that. Soooo.. wtf??? I feel bad for Jace, this isn't the first time and it's such a turn off reading-wise, when you're enjoying a story and something like this happens. Maybe I'd judge less if the author made it so he was SUPPOSED to be percieved as an abusive asshole, but they're shining this under a romantic light, so no. Gross. Disgusting, and downright triggering for some people.
Why is r*pe and sexual assault so normalized in BL??? Why, in modern times, when we advocate for these things, is it so common for the top, (occasionally the bottom), to get aggressive and borderline obsessive instead of- idk- TALKING? Everyone here who can identify this would never be in a relationship with someone like that. Soooo.. wtf??? I feel bad for Jace, this isn't the first time and it's such a turn off reading-wise, when you're enjoying a story and something like this happens. Maybe I'd judge less if the author made it so he was SUPPOSED to be percieved as an abusive asshole, but they're shining this under a romantic light, so no. Gross. Disgusting, and downright triggering for some people.