Annoying

Just an honest question, have you ever experienced anxiety or depression?
Because it doesn't seem as if you have, no judgement, you're just lucky if you haven't had to.
It's not pretty, and as a character he's not meant to be 'pretty' he's meant to be human. It seems for a lot of us here, myself included, that our experiences allow us to see the humanity in his character. It makes his fears real, his anxiety real, it allows us to get absorbed into the story. I'm not putting down your opinion. Just stating mine.

^^ Agree x infinity.
For someone with such low self-esteem, this type of long-distance relationship must be one of the most difficult challenges he's ever faced. His anxiety must be overwhelming, not to mention, I'm sure he feels worse for having these thoughts because he wishes he could be sunny and supportive and trusting for the seme. Wish I could send 1000 hugs his way.

YES! I AGREE WITH U. THE UKE IS A PUSSY GIRL

I experience anxiety, and it's not that I don't understand that it can be crippling. It's just that this character has this amazing man who will do anything under the sun for him including travel once a week to see him despite his exhaustion. At some point we all know that the uke is going to start to become more confident and start to see him self in the eyes of the seme. I just feel worse for the seme than I do for the uke at this point because no matter what he seems to do for him, it's never good enough.

And I'm allowed to say that the uke pisses me off BECAUSE I know how it feels to be depressed and have anxiety. I didn't mean to offend anyone.

Oh, no offense taken (at least not by me ^^).
Like I said, an honest question, and you are absolutely entitled to your own interpretation and opinion, and to express it however you feel best.
I just wish that other people would engage you in conversation instead of pressing a button to disapprove of your personal thoughts - that's how flame wars start.
So thanks for the reply, it was interesting to know your thought process, even if I don't agree (but now I understand why you think that way).