Both parties were victims to a certain extent in this story, it's not a contest about who suffered more and who didn't. The communication was lacking, ahjussi seems to have a hard time expressing himself and his honest emotions, he likes to sugarcoat his words and if i put it into one word he's a sweet talker. Yo il on the other hand is very honest with his emotions, he likes to showcase his love very openly and doesn't understand what the consequences it might have, and he was insensitive towards ahjussi at the end bc he completely got wrapped up un his own emotions and refused to hear ahjussi's reasoning which I can't blame him for rlly. Even when they were together you can't deny that ahjussi saw beom in yo il, altho he tried to deny it. Overall I don't think it would've worked out either way because the age gap was way too huge, they walked different paths in life and the older one has more sour experiences while the younger one was cherished and loved all his life, they'd had a hard time understanding each other's point and eventually fall out
Both parties were victims to a certain extent in this story, it's not a contest about who suffered more and who didn't. The communication was lacking, ahjussi seems to have a hard time expressing himself and his honest emotions, he likes to sugarcoat his words and if i put it into one word he's a sweet talker. Yo il on the other hand is very honest with his emotions, he likes to showcase his love very openly and doesn't understand what the consequences it might have, and he was insensitive towards ahjussi at the end bc he completely got wrapped up un his own emotions and refused to hear ahjussi's reasoning which I can't blame him for rlly. Even when they were together you can't deny that ahjussi saw beom in yo il, altho he tried to deny it. Overall I don't think it would've worked out either way because the age gap was way too huge, they walked different paths in life and the older one has more sour experiences while the younger one was cherished and loved all his life, they'd had a hard time understanding each other's point and eventually fall out