Gio pls

well put yourself on his shoes ... i also get frustrated but ,, its hard to cure a trauma .. especially if its abadonment ...beside he was also abused .. even when he had a new good family , gio still suffer a lot and he didnt want to be pitied ... having a very traumatic childhood , it was hard for him .. just saying

bestie no, y'all just understand what you want to understand, ur invalidating his traumas and keep on saying bullshit come on

i somehow understand it , like i was traumatise to when i was young .. and still right now its so hard to tell it to my family because they think i am just being a brat or thinking too much ..

i also feel insecure a lot of times.

Gio is like that ,, you can cure the trauma , if you didnt have the closure where it has started. His too much afraid , and he can't say things because no one seems to understand him yet .. although I know Felix will always be there for him and understand him , Gio is having a hard time facing it

they're gaslighting traumas and that's a no no, he needs time to recover and have a courage to say what's in his mind, also i hope you'll be okay bestie, have a nice day ^^

Yup Gio need time to recover .. Thanks

I know, righttt?! Trauma is sooo disgusting. Like, wtf Gio? Get your act together and stop letting your trauma get to you! Geez, it's not like it's that deep.. Gio getting scared deeply and anxious because of his trauma is sooo overrated. Grow up, man. It's just a phaseee.

bestie i love this

I’m not referring to his trauma at all tho all of you keep saying oh his trauma… but that’s not why I dislike him…. I don’t like that he just used his illness to overstep a boundary that Felix had already set and even when he saw that Felix was uncomfortable with it in that moment he continued to manipulate the situation in his favor. He does whatever he wants because he knows how much Felix cares about him and literally uses that against him. How could you continue doing something that makes your partner uncomfortable just because you know you can . He was being a dick… trauma isn’t disgusting using your trauma as an excuse to manipulate the one you love is. Trauma isn’t an excuse to disregard your partner’s discomfort. And this isn’t the only time he’s just shattered felix’s boundaries he does it multiple times through out the series even before the operation was suggested. His trauma is about abandonment and abuse so why would he use his illness to make Felix have sex with him under false pretenses… he literally said all I have to do is say I’m cold and he’ll give me what I want ….. BUT HE SHOULDNT BE DOING THAT… it’s not fair to Felix because he love gio and of course he doesn’t want him to be uncomfortable so he’ll be uncomfortable instead but Gio isn’t giving him the same energy he’ll make Felix uncomfortable just because HE CAN

I’m not gaslighting trauma…. My comment wasn’t referring to his insecurities and being scared of abandonment im mad that he’s constantly manipulating Felix because he knows he can. He literally thought “I can tell he’s conflicted about it but all I have to do is say im cold and he’ll do it” or something along those lines and then even tho he KNOWS Felix is uncomfortable with doing it at the office he continues to ask again making SURE he brings up his illness because he KNOWS Felix will give in if he does. That’s not okay it’s never okay to use your illness to manipulate others or guilt trip them into breaking boundaries set to keep them comfortable…. Why should Felix’s feelings and boundaries be disregarded because Gio feels like it that NOT FAIR. You’re not supposed to use your mental illness to get thing from people that they are comfortable with doing. He wasn’t even actually cold he was just trying to prove his point. But he’s been overstepping Boundaries set by Felix since the beginning even before the procedure was brought up your trauma, mental illness, and or physical illness IS NEVER AN EXCUSE TO MANIPULATE OTHERS

I can put myself in his shoes I understand why he doesn’t wanna get the procedure or talk about it with Felix. I understand his abandonment issues. What I think is disgusting is his disregard to respect boundaries and always finding a way to get around them no matter how many times Felix sets them. And this most recent chapter was just a bit much because he KNOWS Felix is uncomfortable doing it in the office so instead of asking and getting turned down because he KNOWS Felix doesn’t want to do it he manipulates him by using his illness as a weapon to get Felix to agree because he KNOWS Felix will do anything to keep him warm and comfortable…. So why can’t he respect felix’s boundaries he’s been over stepping boundaries since before the procedure was ever brought up so it’s not just trauma… he’s just finding ways to get whatever he wants. Mental/physical illness is not a weapon to be used to get what you want or to guilt trip or to manipulate situations in your favor that’s where my problem is with him. He’s allowed to be afraid to lose more people considering his past and his trauma but he’s not allowed to disregard other people’s feelings and boundaries because of it. He’s not obligated to talk about it but using your illness to get past a boundary just because you know you can is disgusting

are we even reading the same thing? wydm by his not actually cold that time? bestie even felix saw he's cold that time cause it's raining, yes you have a point but regardless of your paragraph bestie u said gio is disgusting and it's a big no no for me, yeah gio is kinda guilt tripping felix but he has his reasons and I'm pretty sure he's doing it out of the fear he'd get dump again, that's good that you're using your logic while criticizing the situation but bestie you're too close minded.

But he’s done this before MULTIPLE times. Not just this time and this time it’s still not even because he’s afraid of getting dumped, it’s just to prove a point that even if Felix is uncomfortable that he still has all the control. His fear and anxiety is coming from the procedure being brought up so explain the times he did it BEFORE that… there’s no excuse for those times…. There’s not one for this time in my opinion either but he’s done this with no reason before just because he wants to have sex. Also it’s never okay to make someone uncomfortable just to satisfy YOUR PERSONAL NEEDS it’s not fair that’s disgusting you can’t use mental illness to get away with bad behavior you still have to take responsibility for your actions…. If I’m having a anxiety attack it’s not okay for me to deliberately make someone else feel uncomfortable when there’s other options for me to help myself and get better….